Thanks. |
If the one worked harder I definitely would. |
Notre Dame appears to have plenty of money to give out. Georgetown not so much. But isn’t this child a national merit finalist? |
She will (likely) be commended, not finalist. Although she had perfect score (760) on the Math portion of the PSAT. |
NMF/NMS status won’t get you merit money at those schools unless you go to Alabama, Oklahoma, Kentucky or Kansas and such. |
To this PP: have you checked out McDaniel? My family member attended there with great merit. She studied Math, but a friend of hers was science major and went to medical school. |
For the last two years WPI has had a stated policy of trying to even out their M/F ratio by offering women significantly higher amounts of merit aid. |
| What about something like University of Delaware Honors Program? It's a college within a college, and offers lots of extra opportunities for Honors student. |
This is what I was thinking of as well. Like Ohio State, with honors college. They have OOS merit scholarships. Are there more OOS state schools that have lower tuition than VA in-state and “better”, not sure. |
| If she is not opposed to all female schools then I would suggest Mt Holyoke. They offered my DD a generous merit award. They are part of a consortium which gives you more flexibility in taking classes at Amherst, UMass, and a few others. |
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"Why give more to one sibling than another?
If the one worked harder I definitely would." This is a really tough question. Who is to say what working harder means? If S1 has a learning disability and manages a 3.5 uw 4.2 w (so lots of AP classes) GPA with only a 28 ACT score, did they work more or less than S2 who got a 3.5 uw 4.2 w at TJ with a 1580 SAT? What if S1 prepped like crazy and manages a 1500 SAT but only a 3.8 uw GPA and S2 didn't prep at all and got a 1400 SAT but managed a 4.0 uw GPA in the same set of classes. If S1's 1500 gets them into an expensive school that S2's 1400 kept them out of, I'm not sure I would pay even though S1 had a better plan and followed through to make it work. |
Thanks - we have just started researching the women’s colleges. Can you tell me what sold her on MH versus her other choices? |
Commended us still pretty great and should open up some scholarship opportunities. |
This is single sitting stats. If you super score (which many schools do nowdays), the stats will be much higher. This is why I tell people if your strategy is getting merit money at lower tier schools that superscore, retake a 35. You really have nothing to lose. If you are aiming for top tier schools, don't. I think if OP really needs merit money, either lower the target schools or retake if possible. |
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For a very top student I would send them to the top college if they get in. It increases your families social capital pretty much forever. Our dad went to a top school and grad school and excelled and if neant great jobs for him as well as friendly intelligent colleagues and their families for us to socialize with. It meant that our parents could also afford good schooling options for us kids as well.
When dad died young and all of those things largely dried up our lives changed drastically and it was not good. We ended up going to state schools, including the Maryland ‘flagship’ and maybe it’s changed, but we encountered indifferent and sometimes outwardly hostile professors, many classmates who didn’t care much for school, a job track to a place where I faced discrimination and sexism in my field (another woman from a top school did not face similar discrimination) professors from top universities who just assumed that we were dumb and inferior compared to students at their schools and who weren’t shy about saying so. I still enjoyed my education, but my child now has the chance to take her brains and study skills elsewhere for a better education and future and we figure that that is what money is for, much like my grandparents invested their precious resources in my father. I think that the people who discourage spending money on a child’s education don’t have children with that option and they want to discourage you from taking that opportunity to equalize things for their children. |