I am a physically fit, health conscious guy and I only find chubby/curvy women attractive

Anonymous
OP, probably you are like most normal men in other parts of the country...having a healthy wife who doesn't take diet pills, exercise to the extreme or have an eating disorder is appealing to you.
btw where are the pregnant women around here? Are they required to hide until after they give birth and are thin enough?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


Since when is size 8 chubby??


Since vanity sizing became rampant?

The only slender women who wear a size 8 these days are about 5'9-10" or taller.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You Sir are in the right country, 70+% of women are overweight here.


+1000 Yup, you have more to choose from since 70+% of women in the USA are either overweight or obese. Go get'em.


Traditionally, curvy & chubby have not meant the same thing & neither has meant obese (or even overweight, really).

In the past, "curvy" meant a build that generally included a small waist & comparatively larger hip & breasts but that is still well within a normal/healthy weight range.Curvy was more about how the woman carries her weight than it was about her carrying any extra weight. Marilyn Monroe, for instance, was often described as "curvy" &, iirc, her usual weight would have put her bmi somewhere near the lower end of the healthy range.

People who would have traditionally been described as chubby carried some extra weight but not much. They were still nowhere near obese -- many weren't even truly in the "overweight" category, just at the higher end of the healthy/normal category.

I guess things have changed, though, & nowadays curvy & chubby are synonymous & both mean overweight?


Another form of vanity sizing. People who are overweight or even obese want to think of themselves as merely “curvy” or slightly “chubby”.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


Since when is size 8 chubby??


I'm 5'10" and wear a size 8 -10 and could definitely lose a few pounds but I wouldn't consider that chubby.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If a woman catches my eye, it's a guarantee that she's on the heavier side.

The short vs tall thread kind of triggered my thoughts about other ways where opposites attract.

We humans are interesting animals.

Anybody relate?

Please, come take my wife!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You Sir are in the right country, 70+% of women are overweight here.


+1000 Yup, you have more to choose from since 70+% of women in the USA are either overweight or obese. Go get'em.


Traditionally, curvy & chubby have not meant the same thing & neither has meant obese (or even overweight, really).

In the past, "curvy" meant a build that generally included a small waist & comparatively larger hip & breasts but that is still well within a normal/healthy weight range.Curvy was more about how the woman carries her weight than it was about her carrying any extra weight. Marilyn Monroe, for instance, was often described as "curvy" &, iirc, her usual weight would have put her bmi somewhere near the lower end of the healthy range.

People who would have traditionally been described as chubby carried some extra weight but not much. They were still nowhere near obese -- many weren't even truly in the "overweight" category, just at the higher end of the healthy/normal category.

I guess things have changed, though, & nowadays curvy & chubby are synonymous & both mean overweight?


Nope.

As you very well state, curvy and chubby are very different things.

But don't tell that to the latter
Anonymous
Well this makes me feel slightly better about the 2 lbs. I somehow gained since Christmas :/

lol
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You Sir are in the right country, 70+% of women are overweight here.


+1000 Yup, you have more to choose from since 70+% of women in the USA are either overweight or obese. Go get'em.


Traditionally, curvy & chubby have not meant the same thing & neither has meant obese (or even overweight, really).

In the past, "curvy" meant a build that generally included a small waist & comparatively larger hip & breasts but that is still well within a normal/healthy weight range.Curvy was more about how the woman carries her weight than it was about her carrying any extra weight. Marilyn Monroe, for instance, was often described as "curvy" &, iirc, her usual weight would have put her bmi somewhere near the lower end of the healthy range.

People who would have traditionally been described as chubby carried some extra weight but not much. They were still nowhere near obese -- many weren't even truly in the "overweight" category, just at the higher end of the healthy/normal category.

I guess things have changed, though, & nowadays curvy & chubby are synonymous & both mean overweight?


Nope.

As you very well state, curvy and chubby are very different things.

But don't tell that to the latter


I think curvy, chubby, and obese are all different things.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How chubby/curvy are we talking?

Google Image: "Curvy Women" and "Chubby Women".

Very similar pictures appear.

Anonymous
lol to whatever woman said it was 'bullying' to prefer thin women. I presume she has no problem dating men that are 5'5".

Oh wait...
Anonymous
Chubby chasing is a thing
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


Since when is size 8 chubby??


I'm 5'10" and wear a size 8 -10 and could definitely lose a few pounds but I wouldn't consider that chubby.


Most people probably wouldn't consider you to be chubby, either, but most women who wear a size 8 are not 5'10".
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


Your dad sounds like an asshole


Well 0-2 is pretty much anorexic with zero chest unless she got implants....so he's right.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


Your dad sounds like an asshole


Well 0-2 is pretty much anorexic with zero chest unless she got implants....so he's right.


You poor fatty has an unfortunate warped sense of reality.

Anyone smaller than you are too skinny. Size 0-2 cloyhes in today's stores are 4-6 in the past.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


Since when is size 8 chubby??


I'm 5'10" and wear a size 8 -10 and could definitely lose a few pounds but I wouldn't consider that chubby.


Most people probably wouldn't consider you to be chubby, either, but most women who wear a size 8 are not 5'10".


I worked in the fashion and I can tell you that Size 8 to 10, 5'10" isn't chubby at all. A woman who is truly 5'10" in bare feet is very tall, 98th percentile in the US and Size 8 or 10 would be fit and well-proportioned. We have a warped perception of what a 5'10" woman should wear because the only 5'10"women whose clothing sizes we see published, etc. are generally models, who are very underweight especially in-person.
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