I am a physically fit, health conscious guy and I only find chubby/curvy women attractive

[Anonymous]

You Sir are the real MVP. And, have your pick of the cute curvy ladies.

Fortunately my shorter DH loves taller curvier ladies.

[Anonymous]

Are you Latino? Latino men like curves - no stick thin, pre-pubescent looking women who could pass for 12 year old boys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think your experience is uncommon. I think many men are socialized to date extremely thin women as a status thing, but probably find size 8-12 women plenty attractive.

You obviously are not a man. A side from the fact I do not know other man that thinks and extremely thin women are a status symbol. Moreover, man don't use or look to the women they date for status, that's definitely a woman thing.

You obviously are not living on planet earth.

Men don't date certain types of women as a type of status symbol? Have you heard the term "trophy wife"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You Sir are in the right country, 70+% of women are overweight here.

+1000 Yup, you have more to choose from since 70+% of women in the USA are either overweight or obese. Go get'em.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Female here. I’ve been told I’m gorgeous and am a size zero. My husband is borderline overweight. I do not like skinny guys. I dated one once and couldn’t stand eating more than he did. This way I am the skinny hot one in the relationship But for the record he’s a good looking guy!

My friend is beautiful, tall and thin (probably a 2/4), and her husband would politely be called "husky" or "barrel-chested."

Must be a trend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Female here. I’ve been told I’m gorgeous and am a size zero. My husband is borderline overweight. I do not like skinny guys. I dated one once and couldn’t stand eating more than he did. This way I am the skinny hot one in the relationship But for the record he’s a good looking guy!

Same - skinny myself, do not like skinny guys. I’m not talking obese, but a little belly and a round booty is sexy to me. Husband is definitely my type!

[Anonymous]

People like what they like.

That said curvy is not the same as chubby.

Chubby can often mean overweight or bad eating habits, so are you the health conscious guy okay with building a life with someone who isn't supper health conscious about food.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?

Your dad sounds like an asshole

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?

In what world is an 8-10 chubby? Not mine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Female here. I’ve been told I’m gorgeous and am a size zero. My husband is borderline overweight. I do not like skinny guys. I dated one once and couldn’t stand eating more than he did. This way I am the skinny hot one in the relationship But for the record he’s a good looking guy!

Same - skinny myself, do not like skinny guys. I’m not talking obese, but a little belly and a round booty is sexy to me. Husband is definitely my type!

I felt the same when I was younger because a guy in his 20s/30s with a little extra padding can be very hot. But men who are fat and out of shape in their 40s/50s and not hot: They are just old and fat. Fat and out of shape do not age well for either sex.

[Anonymous]

Ok....carry on.

[Anonymous]

You're not alone OP. Many men like women on the curvy side. Not fat but curvy. Most men would like to be seen with a thin/fit woman but that's not the same as who they actually want to be with and sleep with.

Now, there's always the argument on what is curvy. I see a lot of women that say they're curvy and they are just fat. When I see neck rolls, fat arms, and cankles, I consider that fat. A curvy woman is well proportioned...in my book.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're not alone OP. Many men like women on the curvy side. Not fat but curvy. Most men would like to be seen with a thin/fit woman but that's not the same as who they actually want to be with and sleep with.

Now, there's always the argument on what is curvy. I see a lot of women that say they're curvy and they are just fat. When I see neck rolls, fat arms, and cankles, I consider that fat. A curvy woman is well proportioned...in my book.

Thin/fit does not mean being a stick. I am very fit and a 36", 26", 36" - plenty curvy

[Anonymous]

I think that's great. This is why people should go after who they are attracted to, you never know what someone likes.

Ransoms aside, I do wish the curvy hadn't been hikacked as a synonym for chubby. I'm fit but curvy (hourglass shape) and I can never use that term as a descriptor now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think that's great. This is why people should go after who they are attracted to, you never know what someone likes.

Ransoms aside, I do wish the curvy hadn't been hikacked as a synonym for chubby. I'm fit but curvy (hourglass shape) and I can never use that term as a descriptor now.

Thin/fit has been hijacked, at least on DCUM, for looking like a stick with no chest which is just as ridiculous.

I am the poster above you and no one would EVER mistake me for a 12 yr old boy.