I am a physically fit, health conscious guy and I only find chubby/curvy women attractive

Anonymous
Reading DCUM you would think that chubby/fat girls are doomed to a lonely life, but my circle of friends and Facebook feed is full of happy, big girls with their adoring husbands.
Anonymous
More to love. More cushion for the pushin'.
Anonymous
Me too, DW is about 150 was 135/140 when we met, hit about 225 post pregnancy. I have been equally attracted to her at every weight. Really don’t care she is awesome. I think a little muffin top, tummy pooch (as she calls it), stretch marks, hanging breast ar sexy as hell.
Anonymous
They ride like Cadillacs.... Nothing wrong with that!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:More to love. More cushion for the pushin'.


Lol that's too funny for 7 am.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Are you Latino? Latino men like curves - no stick thin, pre-pubescent looking women who could pass for 12 year old boys.


Yep, so do black men. I've always felt like white women are the only ones who feel pressured to be thin.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


In what world is an 8-10 chubby? Not mine.


8-10 is my ideal, lol
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you Latino? Latino men like curves - no stick thin, pre-pubescent looking women who could pass for 12 year old boys.


Yep, so do black men. I've always felt like white women are the only ones who feel pressured to be thin.


I was born to the wrong culture. Sigh.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think your experience is uncommon. I think many men are socialized to date extremely thin women as a status thing, but probably find size 8-12 women plenty attractive.


You obviously are not a man. A side from the fact I do not know other man that thinks and extremely thin women are a status symbol. Moreover, man don't use or look to the women they date for status, that's definitely a woman thing.


I disagree. I can think of at least 2 relationships where the guy married for status. It's not like the wives are ugly, but I think the extra bit of social status helped.

And can you seriously say that men don't care about status? Sure, some professional men will date strippers and hair dressers, but I actually don't know a single one who married that. Men marry women in their social level.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think your experience is uncommon. I think many men are socialized to date extremely thin women as a status thing, but probably find size 8-12 women plenty attractive.


You obviously are not a man. A side from the fact I do not know other man that thinks and extremely thin women are a status symbol. Moreover, man don't use or look to the women they date for status, that's definitely a woman thing.


I disagree. I can think of at least 2 relationships where the guy married for status. It's not like the wives are ugly, but I think the extra bit of social status helped.

And can you seriously say that men don't care about status? Sure, some professional men will date strippers and hair dressers, but I actually don't know a single one who married that. Men marry women in their social level.


The Donald always married above his status. He likes his women classy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Me too, DW is about 150 was 135/140 when we met, hit about 225 post pregnancy. I have been equally attracted to her at every weight. Really don’t care she is awesome. I think a little muffin top, tummy pooch (as she calls it), stretch marks, hanging breast ar sexy as hell.


You're awesome. Do you think most of this has to do with the fact that it's HER? Or do you find yourself equally attracted to other women at all sizes?
Anonymous
With the majority being overwight, the chubby kinds become "normal."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dad is exactly like this. Always fit and trim, even now that he’s in his late 60s. All his girlfriends before my mom, and my mom as well, have been the equivalent of a size 8-10. I’m pretty thin and petite (size 0 - 2) and he’s always said I was too skinny and looked like a little boy. ?


In what world is an 8-10 chubby? Not mine.


I was thinking this as well!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you Latino? Latino men like curves - no stick thin, pre-pubescent looking women who could pass for 12 year old boys.


Yep, so do black men. I've always felt like white women are the only ones who feel pressured to be thin.


I was born to the wrong culture. Sigh.


This is why I date black dudes. I have dated some very attractive and fit black guys. I am white and a size 14.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You Sir are in the right country, 70+% of women are overweight here.


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