I mean I HOPE you're right that "some" UMC parents consider KIPP. |
My coworker (Harvard Law grad) has his sons at a KIPP school and is happy there. But I see no need to drive across town for a drill-and-kill school. Regular old DCPS has plenty of structure for them. It's not KIPP vs. montessori out there. So yes, I would never look at KIPP but for the same reason I am not interested in Basis either. My kids don't need that kind of school and definitely don't need the supplemental learning that KIPP offers in terms of soft skills. |
So interesting. So in a way they are teaching upper middle class white CULTURE, in fact, for the purpose of getting ahead in the system. Which truly could have that effect, I suppose. This is kind of stomach turning except for the fact that they might actually be somewhat self-aware about it. If the kids kind of "get" the joke, or get that it's a game, all the better to play it with. I wonder if any so inclined Howard students or classes have analyzed this. |
That's exactly what they are teaching. There are a ton of interesting books and studies about all this. Geoffery Canada, who started the Harlem Children's Zone, has written a few. And they are right. If kids aren't learning to make eye contact, track with their eyes, how to pay attention etc. then they will fail out in the world as adults. And it's not just this stuff- it's access to the latest info on parenting, it's understanding why a structured day is important, or helping parents help their kids with homework. |
It's not white culture, its middle class culture. UMC black children learn this stuff at home too. Don't make everything about race. |
Agreed. And also, the "soft skills" thing is not ALL of KIPP; it's only part of KIPP. Our school (that I otherwise like) has silly acculturation things that I don't think really matter for our kid. I don't have to love every aspect of the school for it to work out. And who knows, maybe my kid would also enjoy or benefit from express instruction in social codes. It's not always equally obvious to all kids ... |
I never know for sure. Because if it's made about class, someone on here will then complain it's really about race. You can't win. Anyways, I think this answered OP's question. These schools are well-versed in good research and try to help teach these various intangibles which MC/UMC and so forth kids are already absorbing at home. Therefore, not of much interest to those on this list (who are mostly from those classes). I would even venture to say, leave these intensive programs for those who most need them/will benefit. It's not a bad thing. Or don't, go there, but don't complain that few others of your demographic are considering it. |
Yes wtf. |
This is the answer. I don't need or want my kid at a "kill and drill" |
I hate those fidget toys. I want to collect every one of them and fling them into a fire. I work hard to help DS learn not to fidget, then he goes to school and is surrounded by fidgeters. It isn’t rubbing off, but is it starting to bug him. He finds the constant motion and fidgeting of people around him incredibly distracting. |
That's the absolute truth |
| I do know UMC parents who go to KIPP for preschool, but all have left for DCI feeders or other Montessori or language schools. So I would not read too much into that. I also know UMC people who go to DC Prep, which is not that different. |
My lawyer coworker has a 3rd and 5th grader there. |
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I have an upper elementary child at KIPP, and I find it insulting when people who have never set foot in one (let alone observed a class) call it a "kill and drill" school. I find it very focused on critical thinking, and while it is structured the teachers/admin have age appropriate expectations. The teachers are wonderful (my child has never even had a mediocre teacher - they've all been excellent), and while the school has its issues, it's working for my middle class white child. No school is perfect, and that includes KIPP, but their curriculum and teachers have my child testing at the 95th and 99th percentile in math and reading on the MAP, and he is challenged in class every day. I do NOT supplement outside of school, so it's not me that's helping his scores improve every year. The "kill and drill" rumor is UMC white people making the assumption that poor students of color can only learn when forced to memorize everything, and that the school ONLY teaches to the test. It's not true, it's just a way of diminishing those kids accomplishments. You don't have to consider the school. I don't care if you don't. But please don't say it's "kill and drill", when all you know is the rumors and what racist rich people on DCUM say about it. |