Affairs: Lets hear from the guys

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Anonymous wrote:I just took dw a cup of coffee while she was getting out of the shower and getting dressed. She's got a ridiculous body and I decided to hang out and chat while she went about her routine. I can't tell you what we talked about - I think maybe the Alabama election results.

Anyway, it's been 16 years and I haven't messed up. We have sex a few times a week if that matters.

At first, I thought this was touching. But then I re-read about her "ridiculous body"... is this what it comes down to? I see this constantly on here - if the wife is hot, all is okay. If she gains weight, etc, the DH starts noticing every single flaw about her (that has probably always been there) and starts looking elsewhere. Is it that simple (and twisted)? Just stay hot?

It’s a great start.

—woman.

Someone triggered th fatty.

And no, no matter how hot a woman is there’s a guy who is tired of putting up with her crap

Are you just looking for excuses to stop being hot? Keeping your hot body is not a 100% ironclad guarantee to keep him faithful. But packing on 40 pounds is a good way to turn him off, make him notice all the hot bodies that are out there and not at home. Which approach do you choose? Is it cool for *him* to get fat?

I’m a dude, what I’m saying is staying hit is important- but if you’re an ice queen that won’t work. Like I said, I’ve dated super hot women before and I’m not married to them. Why? I didn’t like them after a while. It happens. No woman is worth massive amounts of frustration and agony. Find one that’s hot and a good person.

Also, I’m in shape, women want to sleep with strong guys:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2017/12/12/women-rate-the-strongest-men-as-the-most-attractive-study-finds/?utm_term=.944cb413dc40

So I work out hard and stay in shape. There’s no way my wife is leaving me for some other guy with a better body - and if she does guess what? I’m still attractive and will have an easier time finding someone else. Women like to hook up with fit guys, don’t believe for one second they don’t .

My husband isn't fit but he makes a shit ton of money and no amount of muscle would ever tempt me to cheat.

Yes you would...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She is the exact version of my wife who I *thought* I had married, minus DW's 40 pound weight gain and total loss of any sex drive. Seriously, I was raised with values and integrity. Never once cheated on any prior girlfriends/relationships, never thought I could EVER go there. But words can't describe how draining it is to be sexually pursuing a wife who is both uninterested and unattractively overweight. Then, enter the new girl who looks/acts just like the sexy DW you dated. Sparks fly and all my morals left the building.

Wow, you're such a victim.

Agreed, and easily proven. I treat my wife very well, even better than we first met. I treat my wife significantly better (1000X) than my other woman. And yet, my wife no longer feels any sexual desire for me. Clearly this is not a result of how I treat her.

I look pretty good now, about the same as when I met my wife (extrapolated out 15 years). Same height, same weight, same penis size, etc. And my appearance is identical for both my wife and this other woman. Again, clearly, the sexual attraction is not a result of how I look.

My sexual skills now are better than when I met my wife. I am attentive and enjoy my partner's pleasure. This is evident by the fact this other woman keeps coming (literally) back for more. Clearly, my abilities in bed are not at fault.

As to my wife's weight gain, clearly this too has nothing to do with me: I do not put extra food on her plate. She has a gym membership and freedom to work out 7 days/week.

So Yes, I am a victim of my wife's decision to abdicate the role of being my attractive sexual partner. And yes, this has allowed me to justify finding (rather easily) somebody else to fill this role.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is perfect. Ivy League, associate at 26, offered partner at 32. Great mom, PTSA chair, still a size 6, and an inch of thigh gap.

In spite of all that, I've been unfaithful dozens of times, mostly with single women who live in trailer parks in Manassass. Because like all men, I'm stupid and will always chose fat, stupid, ugly whores over what I have have at home, any day of the week. I've probably infected my wife with HPV, and one of the hookers I patronize has stolen her identity. All the problems in the marriage are my fault, too.



There ya go ladies. That should confirm all your stereotypes.

Haha - I think I love you - either for your sense of humor or your complete unabashed honesty.

I'm sorry, but I'm happily and faithfully married. But your kind words are appreciated.

[Anonymous]

It’s almost always hot when we’re drunk.

[Anonymous]

I respect my wife too much to do the things I do with my ho bitch.