+1. It's amazing how so many folks are addicted to faux outrage |
Unpopular =/= deserved to be lynched or wrong You going by popularity to live lives is the problem. |
+1. Thank you both for being honest and fair to fellow humans. This mad world still has hope. |
I read it closely. I have experience reading scientific literature closely, and I thought it was poorly-written and badly supported. His level of scientific understanding is embarrassing for somebody is apparently so bright. It was pseudo-scientific nonsense that showed a wild exaggeration of the science involved. Essentially, misogynist trash. |
He didn't get '"lynched." He got fired. Getting along in the workplace is important. If he had concerns as a manager, there might have been an appropriate to bring them up. But he actually rashly, rudely, and stupidly. |
He took requests for honest feedback too literally they should have counselors working with employees like that in big corporations, as these employees also bring a lot of talent to the company.
Now I think his only option is to get hired by a foreign company I think. |
You are probably right. Our loss. |
My ASD kid does the same thing. Very hard to explain why people make up rules they don't intend to be followed. Also hard to explain that if you do want to give honest feedback, there are more socially acceptable ways than sending a poorly considered critique to thousands of people. |
No they don't. The IT companies are focused on their products, not diversity training. |
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Any good books or articles out there about dealing with employees on the spectrum or spectrum-like (in case they do not have a diagnosis)?
I have a colleague who is high IQ/low EQ who has been promoted beyond her EQ and she is now a falling star. She is part of a team I am on so it is very definitely in our interest to do what we can to help her be more successful. |
Google does it https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2017/08/15/google-diversity-training-slides-prohibit-debate-promote-secrecy.html |
Yes, send her to as many seminars as possible to focus on EQ skills. They can be taught. It will not turn her into a social star, but it can be make the difference between falliing star and surviving star. |
The article says he has a girlfriend who is apparently willing to provide him with the perspective that he cannot figure out on his own, and he refuses her help. This is the "he isn't learning" part--he should have learned after the Harvard incident to get an outside perspective. I don't know if that is related to HFA or not. |
It really doesn't matter. Not everyone is made for management. He's probably great at what he does, but put him in a management position and its a disaster as he was younger and never trained properly. Most IT is like that. You either have people who manage who have no idea the technology or people who know the technology and are amazing at it but lousy with managing. Many of those companies have managers both working and supervising which is complete overload as they cannot be committed to either one (and even worse for those who travel a lot). He's an adult. He's quirky. Many IT folks are quirky. Most don't go around saying that stuff. And, no, most aren't running to diversity trainings. They may offer them but they need to keep up with the technology. |
| The fact that most people would violently reject any viable ideas that are different from their tripe tells us the world is full of idiots who fancy themselves "highly educated." |