Why so much negativity over dating a bi sexual guy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guys are not bisexual. If he says he is bisexual then he is gay but not fully ready to accept it yet

This.

Plus: Google what Margaret Cho has to say about bisexuality (including herself).

[Anonymous]

On a certain level I don't have issues with bisexuality. If someone introduced themselves to me as bisexual I wouldn't think twice about it because it's their life and I'm not in a relationship with them. But I sure wouldn't be going into a relationship with a known bisexual man.

Part of it is certainly comfort factors. A man who's slept with other men has done things that I'm not comfortable having done to me. No need to say more about that.

Part of it is certainly trust and this is probably the biggest factor. I don't believe that most bisexual men can turn off their desires for male to male sexual activities any more than a straight man can stop having sex with a straight woman. I do expect monogamy in my relationships.

Go ahead and call me a bigot if you want, but you're likely outting yourself as an angry teenager snowflake with little real life experience. I have a gay brother, I have many gay friends, and no, this isn't one of those "oh my grandmother was a Cherokee princess" moments but that after several decades of reasonably close exposure to the gay community and listening to many quite frank conversations, it's clear to me the consensus is quite consistent when it comes to bisexual men as long term partners and that is grounded in so many personal experiences from so many people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On a certain level I don't have issues with bisexuality. If someone introduced themselves to me as bisexual I wouldn't think twice about it because it's their life and I'm not in a relationship with them. But I sure wouldn't be going into a relationship with a known bisexual man.

Part of it is certainly comfort factors. A man who's slept with other men has done things that I'm not comfortable having done to me. No need to say more about that.

Part of it is certainly trust and this is probably the biggest factor. I don't believe that most bisexual men can turn off their desires for male to male sexual activities any more than a straight man can stop having sex with a straight woman. I do expect monogamy in my relationships.

Go ahead and call me a bigot if you want, but you're likely outting yourself as an angry teenager snowflake with little real life experience. I have a gay brother, I have many gay friends, and no, this isn't one of those "oh my grandmother was a Cherokee princess" moments but that after several decades of reasonably close exposure to the gay community and listening to many quite frank conversations, it's clear to me the consensus is quite consistent when it comes to bisexual men as long term partners and that is grounded in so many personal experiences from so many people.

Definitely. I am a bisexual woman and I wouldnt touch a bisexual man with a ten foot pole.

They truly are the pariahs of the sexual community. Absolutely nobody wants them.

[Anonymous]

OP, the consensus is clear.

If you stick to dating heterosexual men, you will be completed protected from cheating and your partner will only be interested in intercourse. You will never have sex in any other way with a heterosexual man, and he will always be completely faithful to you.

[Anonymous]

Morale of thread: if you are male, and you are not 1000% gay, do not admit to any same sex attraction whatsoever to any woman or you will be presumed to be an untrustworthy sexual pariah.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Morale of thread: if you are male, and you are not 1000% gay, do not admit to any same sex attraction whatsoever to any woman or you will be presumed to be an untrustworthy sexual pariah.

Honestly the gays dont want bisexuals either. They'll take you for a quick roll in the hay but nothing more