Why so much negativity over dating a bi sexual guy?

[Anonymous]

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I like the idea of gay people but having them close to you is a disaster.

It will start with suspiciously late nights for "work." Over time, you'll come to find that Johny-Bi is down at a leather bar. You'll confront him, and it will be your fault for pressuring him, or some other bullshit.

The gay culture is like a gang of thieves, so the others will be encouraging him.

There is *so much* stigma associated with being gay that no man attracted to women ventures to that side. The guy is gay, nearly full on if not full on.

The stigma today is worse for "bi" in my opinion. People accept gays because they can fit into a convenient bucket, in modern times. I don't think gay guys are doing the "fake bi" thing anymore, like Elton John did back in the day. What would be the point now? If a man says that he is bi now, he is probably being honest.

[Anonymous]

I don't have an issue with people being gay or bi. But I'd be worried that he likes penis, and since I don't have a penis, at some point he's going to want to go outside the relationship to get penis again.

(I have the same worry when I date a guy whose usual type is women with big boobs. I am a size A, and figure that at some point he might go back to his usual preference.)

[Anonymous]

Does he only want to do you from behind? If so, be very concerned he can only perform while imagining you are a guy during sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He has had a penis in his mouth and ass. RUN!

You've had penises in your mouth and your ass AND your vagina- how is that different? How are you better? You can give your partner HPV and oral cancer.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

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But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He has had a penis in his mouth and ass. RUN!

You've had penises in your mouth and your ass AND your vagina- how is that different? How are you better? You can give your partner HPV and oral cancer.

How do you know where she's had it? Also men and women are different and have different hygiene habits.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

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But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

You dont seem to understand heterosexual sex. Hint: most heterosexual couples dont have anal sex. And men have hairy asses, not women (mostly) FYI

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

[phone]

But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

You dont seem to understand heterosexual sex. Hint: most heterosexual couples dont have anal sex. And men have hairy asses, not women (mostly) FYI

No - not true. Women have hairy asses too and guess what? They are both used for the same thing.
Many men seem to like anal sex. Do with that info what you wish.

Do you women really see a new boyfriend and think 'oh, he's never had sex before?' Really??

And a lot of what gay men do is oral.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

[phone]

But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

You dont seem to understand heterosexual sex. Hint: most heterosexual couples dont have anal sex. And men have hairy asses, not women (mostly) FYI

No - not true. Women have hairy asses too and guess what? They are both used for the same thing.
Many men seem to like anal sex. Do with that info what you wish.

Do you women really see a new boyfriend and think 'oh, he's never had sex before?' Really??

And a lot of what gay men do is oral.

No, women's bodies are nowhere near as hairy as men's. If you stopped banging dudes in their hairy holes you would know this

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He has had a penis in his mouth and ass. RUN!

You've had penises in your mouth and your ass AND your vagina- how is that different? How are you better? You can give your partner HPV and oral cancer.

How do you know where she's had it? Also men and women are different and have different hygiene habits.

How do you know where he's had it and what he's been doing with it?
Your hygiene habits include residues from other women your bf has had sex with too . If you really believe this about bisexual men you should also believe it about heterosexual men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

[phone]

But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

You dont seem to understand heterosexual sex. Hint: most heterosexual couples dont have anal sex. And men have hairy asses, not women (mostly) FYI

No - not true. Women have hairy asses too and guess what? They are both used for the same thing.
Many men seem to like anal sex. Do with that info what you wish.

Do you women really see a new boyfriend and think 'oh, he's never had sex before?' Really??

And a lot of what gay men do is oral.

No, women's bodies are nowhere near as hairy as men's. If you stopped banging dudes in their hairy holes you would know this

I give up - it's too difficult to reason with a 12 year old.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He has had a penis in his mouth and ass. RUN!

You've had penises in your mouth and your ass AND your vagina- how is that different? How are you better? You can give your partner HPV and oral cancer.

How do you know where she's had it? Also men and women are different and have different hygiene habits.

How do you know where he's had it and what he's been doing with it?
Your hygiene habits include residues from other women your bf has had sex with too . If you really believe this about bisexual men you should also believe it about heterosexual men.

Yes and women are cleaner and more hygienic than men, so it's fine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

[phone]

But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

You dont seem to understand heterosexual sex. Hint: most heterosexual couples dont have anal sex. And men have hairy asses, not women (mostly) FYI

No - not true. Women have hairy asses too and guess what? They are both used for the same thing.
Many men seem to like anal sex. Do with that info what you wish.

Do you women really see a new boyfriend and think 'oh, he's never had sex before?' Really??

And a lot of what gay men do is oral.

No, women's bodies are nowhere near as hairy as men's. If you stopped banging dudes in their hairy holes you would know this

I give up - it's too difficult to reason with a 12 year old.

Staying away from adults in general would be wise for you, since you seem to have such an aversion to body hair and adult female bodies

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:It's bigotry. Love on your man. If he's a good guy, you two will make it work.

I think being a bi guy is the hardest sexuality to be -- you get the hate from all sides.

I dont hate bi guys, I just don't want a guy inside me who has dipped his wick into another dudes hairy bum hole.

[phone]

But a heterosexual man could have dipped his thing in a woman's hairy butt hole and her vagina and her mouth - how is one bad and one isn't bad?

If you cant figure out why homosexual male sex is repulsive to many women, I cant help you. But I will tell you that I'm happy to leave all of the homosexual, sorry, I mean bi guys, all to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm dating a guy, 3 months in and he shared that he is bi sexual, but monogamous when in a relationship and currently devoted to our relationship fully. We've both been tested, shared results before we ever had sex.

Everyone I have talked to says this is a disaster waiting to happen.

Why?

Can't a bi sexual guy settle down and be in a monogamous relationship, get married, have kids?

A college bf was bi. He cheated on me with one specific gay guy at least twice before I broke it off. He DID go on to marry a woman and they have kids. No idea if she knows he’s bi or if he’s been faithful. He really wanted to marry a Jewish woman and have genetically Jewish kids so my guess is that he’s happy.