Lead in homes all over Baltimore. It's pathetic that that has never been fixed. |
+1,000,000 You just described what many of us who grew up in "mixed" neighborhoods already know. My school in the Deep South was about half and half AA and other, mostly white (I am a person of color but not AA). It is a position of great privilege to be so naive as to think the problems within the AA communities can be fixed by "better" teachers, more money, free technology, yadda yadda. It shows you are so sheltered you have no clue what the hell you are talking about. |
Well, mostly. But you're shifting the goalposts here. Upper middle-class families are making sure their kids get to school on time every day because they have the economic resources to do so. Poor families do not have these resources -- by definition. That doesn't mean that upper-middle-class parents are good parents and poor parents are bad parents. It means that upper-middle-class parents have more economic resources than poor parents. So one possible policy approach would be to make sure that poor parents have the economic resources necessary for making sure their kids get to school in time every day. Another possible policy approach would be to separate the children of poor parents from their families. The US has actually done this in the past -- for example, with the Indian boarding schools. How did that work out? |
What data do you have about family size and fertility rates among "these women"? Or are you just assuming that obviously they're having piles of babies, everybody knows that? Now, what percentage of women |
I had an unplanned pregnancy myself. I would've never had my son had I not been able to take care of him. These people cannot afford to atke care of themselves. They have no business continuing with a pregnancy (many times over) when they cannot afford it. Just like I don't buy a Lexus because I can't afford it. I don't spend a week in the Caribbean because I cannot afford it. |
1. Buying a Lexus 2. Spending a week in the Caribbean 3. Having a child One of these things is not like the other. |
DP here - how is it different? Some people live within their means and recognize limits. Some people feel that they can do whatever the f$ck they want without consequence because the taxpayers will subsidize them having more kids. PP can't afford a Lexus so she doesn't get one. She knew she couldn't support 6 babies, so she did not have them. |
Well I posted before because I work at a health clinic where we see a ton of lower income women who do churn out babies. So I can only speak from my experience. |
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Well I posted before because I work at a health clinic where we see a ton of lower income women who do churn out babies. So I can only speak from my experience. But that's like a podiatrist posting about how everybody has foot problems. Or an oncologist posting about how everybody has cancer. |
You're asking how a child is different from a fancy car or a nice vacation. |
We have been doing this and it appears that it is not a cure all. Does it make sense to continue to do something that has been proven not to work? We have been supporting Head Start programs for years. In MoCo, low income kids get free preK and also get bussed to school for free if needed. My neighbor teaches at one of these locations and often times, the parents just don't bother sending the kids. What happens when we have made it economically feasible for the kids to attend school and get there on time, but the parents still don't send their kids. How do you propose that we hold these parents accountable? |
No, you're just being obtuse. We're saying that every family decides what they can and cannot afford. If you cannot afford a Lexus, you should not buy one. If you cannot make payments on your Didge Dart, you should not buy a Lexus. If you cannot financially take care of the 3 kids you already have, you should not have more. |
Evidently we have not been doing that. For example, how much do you know about housing in Baltimore? Also, how do you propose to "hold parents accountable"? Either parents get their kids to school on time, or else what? Can we agree that most parents -- including parents who are poor unmarried black women in West Baltimore -- love their children and want good lives for them? I hope so. Let's start from there. |
In short, poor people should not have children. Children are a luxury item that only affluent people should get to have. That's your belief. Nonetheless, the reality is that poor people do have children, even though there are plenty of people who believe that they shouldn't. How do you propose to deal with that reality? |
There have been several people in this thread suggest that better birth control would be a good start and I agree. Currently, our system rewards poor unmarried moms (of all races) for having more kids. Why can't we change that up? Let's reward poor unmarried moms for NOT having more kids. Do you think that poor unmarried moms are helping themselves by having more kids? |