It's best for your selfish needs if you stay in the closet. It's not fair to the woman, though, if you want a real relationship. She has a right to know about this important part of you. Being bisexual is like being a teenage driver. You're going to be suspect and you'll pay higher premiums because of statistics about teenage drivers in general. Learning to deal with that is part of being mature. It's not fair. It's life. |
just because someone is bi and they are in a straight relationship, doesn't mean that they will/must cheat.
If both are tested, and no issues are found and the bi man wants to be with a woman, then that is ok it's part of him being bi. He will either be in a relationship with a man or a woman, but as long as he is committed to that relationship that he is in, then why condemn him or worry about him getting with a guy |