Anonymous wrote:Not really. They pushed me out of their lives many years ago. I had a series of serious surgeries a few years ago and, against my explicit instructions, my cousin told them. They did not contact me, which made me so sad because it said to me that they simply did not care about me. We last saw them five years ago and they have seen my children only three or four times.
But my parents would be proud of me that I went.
Consider that your cousin may have also passed along that you gave explicit instructions for her not to tell them. People don't know how to react to that. I mention this only because we did the same with DH's family when he went through a major surgery.
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