Broke up with boyfriend but need to stay for another week

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

That's true. OP the PP has a point. Men can go batshit insane after a breakup and the sad fact of that is proven in the statistics of violence against women after leaving a relationship. It might be wiser to find a cheap hotel to stay in. You can find plenty of good hotels for $30 in some areas, and definitely under $50 in nearly every area. That might be the best bet, and you won't be under all this stress and worry.

I really don't think this will happen. He has never really been angry at me before and I've known him for a few years . If things get bad I will have to tell my aunt what happened. I prefer to be private about my personal life. I don't want to create stress / drama for her or my friends . I will definitely tell my close friends eventually. I feel too old for this drama... I am almost 30!

It's okay. These kinds of horrible revelations happen even to women in their 50s and they post about it on this board!

BTW, I am a fellow millennial and supporting you. I feel like you will get a lot of pushback from the older women on this board, because back in the day, "almost 30" meant a totally different thing than it does nowadays, when the majority of my friends are unmarried and many are single and not looking. So don't let them shame you- consider the source! lol...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hardcore trolling on DCUM tonight. Staying after a breakup for brow appointment and a haircut? Stop the jokes. Either op is a 4chan fanboy or a dumbass who doesn't deserve an effort of our time. But OP is hardly a woman in need of help or support.

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[Anonymous]

I find it kind of funny that people on here are discussing the need to buy a blanket.

I am sure there has to be at least another one in the house somewhere.
And if not, every home usually comes equipped w/a heater.

[Anonymous]

It's not so strange that a guy in his twenties only has one blanket.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here: It's been about an hour since I broke up with him and he's already snoring!

Because he doesn't care.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There are too many odd pieces to this post - only 1 blanket, friends to hang with but not able to crash with, "appointments" ( whatever that means),

Look I need to get my eyebrows tweezed and haircut if you really must know. I love my hairdresser here. I will feel awesome after my appointment. You really think it's weird he only has one blanket? I mean he's a guy in his 20s. He also has very little kitchen stuff too...

Oh, I had sympathy when you had appointments, but eyebrows and hair? Nope.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it costs $1,000 to change to an earlier flight. What airline?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hardcore trolling on DCUM tonight. Staying after a breakup for brow appointment and a haircut? Stop the jokes. Either op is a 4chan fanboy or a dumbass who doesn't deserve an effort of our time. But OP is hardly a woman in need of help or support.

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Yup, I have to agree. A woman who is willing to sleep on the couch for a week without a blanket while her cheating ex is in bed is not a woman who would impulsively break up with her bf as soon as she discovered the texts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hardcore trolling on DCUM tonight. Staying after a breakup for brow appointment and a haircut? Stop the jokes. Either op is a 4chan fanboy or a dumbass who doesn't deserve an effort of our time. But OP is hardly a woman in need of help or support.

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Yup, I have to agree. A woman who is willing to sleep on the couch for a week without a blanket while her cheating ex is in bed is not a woman who would impulsively break up with her bf as soon as she discovered the texts.

She obviously didn't read the rest of the thread. He brought me a blanket and a pillow later. I left his room and went to the sofa when I discovered the text messages. He was probably so shocked that he couldn't respond for a while. I would be charged for my appointments since the salon is closed today. Plus I don't like flaking on people. I have obligations that I want to keep. I'm really sad this is over but I will be ok. This isn't my first breakup.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah this is a troll. Damsel in distress. Broken up. 1 blanket. No place to go. 1 week. Appoitments. Cant go to hotel. Cant change plane tickets.

Yeah whatever . Get a life.

Yeah, whatever OP. You don't want to cut the strings. I get it. But don't waste people's time being all, "My eyebrows, I can't buy a blanket, my friends I can't cancel in but don't know well enough to stay with, an aunt I can't crash with, etc."

You'll be sleeping with your boyfriend again within two days.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here: It's been about an hour since I broke up with him and he's already snoring!

Because he doesn't care.

+ 1, hardcore

[Anonymous]

You are awesome OP. Just sending you good vibes and urging you not to pay attention to the sad losers who attack nearly everyone on every thread (more so if you don't cater to their BS). Keep on keeping on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

Then why doesn't she stay with her aunt. The aunt's condo can't be any smaller than her staying on ex bf's couch. And I'm sure her Aunt Tilly has an extra blanket for her to use.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are awesome OP. Just sending you good vibes and urging you not to pay attention to the sad losers who attack nearly everyone on every thread (more so if you don't cater to their BS). Keep on keeping on.

Thanks! I've been hanging out at Starbucks today and I am doing OK. I need to remain friends with him for professional reasons. He helped me find my current job. There's no way I can forgive him for this though. That's for sure. I'm surprised how well I am taking this. In a way it has been a relief because I have been off and on about breaking up with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

Then why doesn't she stay with her aunt. The aunt's condo can't be any smaller than her staying on ex bf's couch. And I'm sure her Aunt Tilly has an extra blanket for her to use.

I wouldn't be comfortable staying there . End of story.