Broke up with boyfriend but need to stay for another week

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You just suck it up. Live like roommates. Be polite and that's it. Don't talk about the relationship, or how hurt or angry you are. Someone sleeps on the couch or you alternate. I did it for two months with stbx. I think you can manage for a week.

We only have one blanket at his place... He's in the bedroom right now and I am freezing cold on the sofa.

What an ass. He should take the sofa. Good call breaking up with him.

+10000

[Anonymous]

Does he want you to stay with him after you dumped him? I would start looking for another option in case tomorrow he tells you to leave. A hotel or change your flight.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, OP. I've he's letting you shiver on the sofa, he wouldn't have been a good partner for the long haul. But it sucks right now.

Layer another shirt and use your coat ( or his, if necessary) as a blanket, then buy yourself a proper blanket tomorrow. Go shopping and buy the softest, most gorgeous and awesome blanket you can find. Snuggle up in it for the rest of the week and reassure yourself that you will be okay because you are strong and deserving and can boy your damned fabulous blanket.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP. I've he's letting you shiver on the sofa, he wouldn't have been a good partner for the long haul. But it sucks right now.

Layer another shirt and use your coat ( or his, if necessary) as a blanket, then buy yourself a proper blanket tomorrow. Go shopping and buy the softest, most gorgeous and awesome blanket you can find. Snuggle up in it for the rest of the week and reassure yourself that you will be okay because you are strong and deserving and can boy your damned fabulous blanket.

Aww thank you

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That should be, if he's letting you shiver. . .

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why can't you fly back sooner? How much of a fee is there to change dates to fly? Call and ask.

Plus, once you get home you can go back to work (I assume you're employed) a week earlier and get a paycheck/not use PTO

I have a few appointments I really need to attend and a few evenings out with friends. I don't want to flake on them.

If you have friends there call one and go crash at their place. Or go to a hotel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does he want you to stay with him after you dumped him? I would start looking for another option in case tomorrow he tells you to leave. A hotel or change your flight.

He said its fine and I believe him. He's a very good hearted guy but apparently likes to cheat. I didn't see this coming . I am 29 and we've been together for a few years. I thought he was the one . The messages were so gross. He said they were automatic messages after he responded to their ad .. Still he was trying to find hook ups!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP. I've he's letting you shiver on the sofa, he wouldn't have been a good partner for the long haul. But it sucks right now.

Layer another shirt and use your coat ( or his, if necessary) as a blanket, then buy yourself a proper blanket tomorrow. Go shopping and buy the softest, most gorgeous and awesome blanket you can find. Snuggle up in it for the rest of the week and reassure yourself that you will be okay because you are strong and deserving and can boy your damned fabulous blanket.

Aww thank you

Hang in there!

[Anonymous]

Op here: It's been about an hour since I broke up with him and he's already snoring!

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There are too many odd pieces to this post - only 1 blanket, friends to hang with but not able to crash with, "appointments" ( whatever that means),

[Anonymous]

Use a bunch of towels for blankets and find a friend to crash with tomorrow. Staying is CRAZY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Use a bunch of towels for blankets and find a friend to crash with tomorrow. Staying is CRAZY.

I am not comfortable telling my friends what's going on. If I were really close with them it would be different.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Use a bunch of towels for blankets and find a friend to crash with tomorrow. Staying is CRAZY.

Can you bump some appointments up and shift things around? I have successfully gotten multiple flights changed in the past by explaining that it was an emergency and giving valid reasons. You might just get a sympathetic lady who is all too eager to change your flight when she finds out about your douchebag (ex)boyfriend and the hooker from craigslist.

I would probably try to hammer the appointments out- ask your friends if there's anyway they could meet tomorrow, the next day, and the third day, get them done, and at least try to leave a fewer days earlier.

I also would not tell your ex you're going to leave early if you do because if he is planning any petty post-breakup revenge he will think he has a few more days to do it and will surely save the nonsense for the last couple days.

Good luck, OP.

[Anonymous]

Yeah this is a troll. Damsel in distress. Broken up. 1 blanket. No place to go. 1 week. Appoitments. Cant go to hotel. Cant change plane tickets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are too many odd pieces to this post - only 1 blanket, friends to hang with but not able to crash with, "appointments" ( whatever that means),

Look I need to get my eyebrows tweezed and haircut if you really must know. I love my hairdresser here. I will feel awesome after my appointment. You really think it's weird he only has one blanket? I mean he's a guy in his 20s. He also has very little kitchen stuff too...