Broke up with boyfriend but need to stay for another week

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

Does he work and will he be out of the house while you're home?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

Does he work and will he be out of the house while you're home?

Yes and he works long hours. I also need to work from home as well. I will get through this. I'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

I suggest spending your time during the day out of the house- chill at a local coffeehouse if you have to.

Keep all your stuff in your car any time you're out of the house, just in case he decides to enter full a-hole mode and lock you out of the house or damage your belongings or something (you truly never know the level of cray males can exhibit after a breakup).

Come in shortly before you have to sleep. Sleep on the coach, wake up in the morning, rinse and repeat. DO NOT tell him you intend to leave early, in case he decides to do some tom-foolery. Let the early departure catch him off guard, block his number, and look back at this time as the crazy time you had to stay with your ex after dumping him. Makes for a good drinking story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

Does he work and will he be out of the house while you're home?

Yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

Have you been watching too many lifetime movies? What do you think he's going to do to me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

It takes 1000 bucks to change a flight!?!? Did you go to Mongolia to see your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

That's true. OP the PP has a point. Men can go batshit insane after a breakup and the sad fact of that is proven in the statistics of violence against women after leaving a relationship. It might be wiser to find a cheap hotel to stay in. You can find plenty of good hotels for $30 in some areas, and definitely under $50 in nearly every area. That might be the best bet, and you won't be under all this stress and worry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

It takes 1000 bucks to change a flight!?!? Did you go to Mongolia to see your boyfriend?

She was talking about the cost of staying in a hotel for a week. Unless you're in the 40s, you really can't be shocked that that could potentially add up to $1000 dollars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

It takes 1000 bucks to change a flight!?!? Did you go to Mongolia to see your boyfriend?

She was talking about the cost of staying in a hotel for a week. Unless you're in the 40s, you really can't be shocked that that could potentially add up to $1000 dollars.

This absolutely makes no sense. Change flight to a Monday or latest tuesday departure. 1 night hotel tops.

[Anonymous]

Ladies and gentlemen.


We are all being played. Some teenager is laughing his/her butt off at this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

I have already decided I want to stay. I came here asking for advice of how to get through it. I don't want to blow $1000. I'm trying to be practical.

It takes 1000 bucks to change a flight!?!? Did you go to Mongolia to see your boyfriend?

She was talking about the cost of staying in a hotel for a week. Unless you're in the 40s, you really can't be shocked that that could potentially add up to $1000 dollars.

This absolutely makes no sense. Change flight to a Monday or latest tuesday departure. 1 night hotel tops.

She has appointments she wants to keep and friends to visit. Did you not read the thread?

[Anonymous]

Hardcore trolling on DCUM tonight. Staying after a breakup for brow appointment and a haircut? Stop the jokes. Either op is a 4chan fanboy or a dumbass who doesn't deserve an effort of our time. But OP is hardly a woman in need of help or support.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lets cut the crap out here shall we? Stay the night and get out tomorrow. You are an adult. Presumably you have a credit card. Decide for yourself if you salon appointment is worth it. Decide for yourself if you really want to stay over at you BF's place after ending it.

Dont troll or get trolled. Use your brain cells.

She might not want to spend her own money to pay for her boyfriend's douchebaggery. I don't think waiting it out till Wednesday is insane- two more nights, big deal.

She is using her money to stay safe and regain peace of mind. She is out of town, no support system etc. Boyfriend might be a douche, but her priority is to stay safe! Drill some common sense into yourself.

That's true. OP the PP has a point. Men can go batshit insane after a breakup and the sad fact of that is proven in the statistics of violence against women after leaving a relationship. It might be wiser to find a cheap hotel to stay in. You can find plenty of good hotels for $30 in some areas, and definitely under $50 in nearly every area. That might be the best bet, and you won't be under all this stress and worry.

I really don't think this will happen. He has never really been angry at me before and I've known him for a few years . If things get bad I will have to tell my aunt what happened. I prefer to be private about my personal life. I don't want to create stress / drama for her or my friends . I will definitely tell my close friends eventually. I feel too old for this drama... I am almost 30!