How many men have you slept with?

[Anonymous]

5.

Met my husband at 26, married at 28. Now 40.

[Anonymous]

0. Figured out I was gay when I was 15. Women- 12 or so.

[Anonymous]

4, including my husband. I'm 38.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this not under Relationships or Explicit?

Explicit? Are you joking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.

[Anonymous]

1. Met husband when I was 17, married at 23. Still married at 40 (for now).

In my case, I think it was a serious mistake. My husband has cheated on me and, in addition to the betrayal, I feel like I missed out on different experiences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just curious to find out what's "typical" for most women. Also, it would be helpful if you would give the age you were when you met your current partner, who presumably was your last.
For me, I've slept with between 25-30 men (don't remember exactly how many) and I met my husband at 25. I realize that this is a very high #, and I'm not boasting, in fact I've never shared this with anyone in real life, so please don't attack.

Genuinely curious why you think anyone would find this boastful? On the contrary...

[Anonymous]

1 just my dh

Met at 30. Married at 32. Currently 34 and trying for a baby.

DH has had more.

[Anonymous]

Slept with 43 (I can name each one). Married at 32. Blissfully married 16 years with four kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.

Fits s lot of couples in this area. You look at some of this people and think...how?

[Anonymous]

About 20ish men (and sort of one woman I guess). Lost my virginity at 20 and I'm 33 now. I've been monogamous for the last 7 years.

[Anonymous]

Gen-X. 1. Met DH at 19. First and only relationship. Married at 25. Waited till my wedding night. Married for 30 years now. Sex life has been adventurous and very frequent throughout our marriage. My theory is that having sex for the first time at 25 has left both of us both of us permanently insatiable. I don't regret not sleeping with other men, but I do regret that DH and I were not sleeping together during our long courtship.

[Anonymous]

Threads like this make me wish my number was higher, happily married for 17 years but aside from what would be considered foreplay with 6+ my number is firmly at one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.