Yes, being full pay and a legacy certainly helps with that. |
Most are. |
| Op, in most cases state U's will be number-based. A certain GPA & SAT and you're in (or rely on HS counselors to hint where students are on the bell curve) Private colleges have the time and resources to pour over applications, the holistic evaluation. Which direction is your child likely to go? What do you hope for your child? I would hope your decision private vs public would be based on deeper thinking than this, since all people can do is generalize. Or did you just want to start a fight? |
You said it! |
Is there a school in the world where this is not a true statement? |
| There is tendency in education to align gpa averages with perceived IQs, overtime and in a very general way. In a small private school, especially, this is the result. Why wouldn't these kids be B/A students? If the school was doing their job, less a few outliners, it's the expected result. It's the result parents should expect. |
No. I was not interesting in talking about college admissions in a Kindergarten admissions interview. |
Good for you Captain Obvious! |
Good point! You should probably rely on the statements by parents of straight A public students that transferred to private and earned B/B+ grades. |
. This is Not true. I served on the admissions committee for a top 20 university and we knew exactly what each schools grade scale was. A kid with a 3.4 from a top private in NYC or Washington DC was viewed very differently from a kid with the same grade point from most publics. Some larger schools have an algorithm for each known high school that automatically adjusts gpa. Grades are very important but relative. |
You're not making an apples to apples comparison. The average student at an academically strong DC private (with a typical A-/B+ gpa, not B/B+) is not a straight A student at most local public high schools. They're average because they perform at a level typical of most of their classmates. In a public school, they would be average among the subset of students who take a challenging AP/IP curriculum (typically weighted to well over 4.0 gpas) and end up at better state schools (UVA, Michigan) and good SLACs (Wesleyan, Colby). Where the privates do well is among academically strong students, especially those interested in the humanities and social sciences. The A student at strong private will have written literally hundreds of pages more than their public school counterparts and be engaged in far deeper, small group discussions than what's usually possible at a very good public school with 2-4x as many students per class. There are teachers at private school who can write very personalized, detailed recs and say things like "the best writer/thinker in my class since [famous author/intellectual]" that make a difference. The advanced academic electives at StA/NCS/SFS/GDS/Maret/Potomac are a lot like college seminars on purpose. As a result, the strong students arrive on college campuses steeped in contemporary academic debates which are very difficult for high school students to navigate on their own. Some of it is just arty intellectual posing, but most of it is knowing a lot more than what's on the AP exams. Then you need to add in the extra level of privilege the private school students possess. Almost all of the top students at my DC's school are legacy at elite schools. They're not super wealthy development cases, but their parents have PBK keys and multiple elite degrees. These are children born on the academic version of 3rd base. My DC's friends from families of modest means have parents who are academics and teachers and public servants and nonprofit types with lots of cultural and intellectual capital. They are adept at "intellectual achievement," so the odds are their children would "win the (college) game" no matter where they went to high school. |
Well I have kids in both public and private so I feel I do know. |
Wow, thanks for pointing that out. You are so smart. I think the point is that girls at the bottom of the class at NCS are still going to top universities - whereas kids at the B range in public schools are not. But I think you already knew that. |
Helpful post. Thank you! |
My Well-written points with lots of food points. Thanks! I did a double-take, though, wondering what Pottery Barn Kids had to do with anything. My HSLAC did not have a Phi Beta Kappa chapter (deliberately--the school scorned external honor societies).
Thanks for the thoughtful post and for the laugh! |