Possible I just ID'd the other woman I didn't know existed at first sight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There could be something there. Doesn't necessarily mean they're sleeping together, but if she's been particularly flirty with him, she might have a similar reaction.

+1 something is off but may not be as horrible as everyone is saying. I would investigate further. For science

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had this kind of intuition about the other woman. I was grocery shopping early one morning and ran into my now-ex-spouses coworker. I knew her and liked and said hi, and in the moment she saw me and recognized me this look flashed over her face of total guilt and fear. At the time, I had no idea what to make of it and never said anything, because that would have been crazy, jealous wife territory. A year and half later I found out they were having an affair that had been a long time emotional affair before it turned physical.

+1. My experiences with two women were different. One practically would hide from me or avoid eye contact altogether. I was always super nice to her. I knew she had a crush on him, but initially thought she was just socially awkward or felt guilty about the crush around me. When I found out the truth, it all made sense (she got pregnant). I honestly prayed for her, because I believe she's a good person who was just yearning for validation and my loser ex preyed on that. The baby was stillborn...I wouldn't wish that hell on anyone. That was over a decade ago and I still wonder about her once in awhile and hope that she rebounded emotionally. My ex was relieved. This was a boyfriend, by the way. Just an ass.

That prepped me for the next woman. I'd met all of his girl friends but this one I met because I arrived sooner than expected. She was too defensive around me and I could tell that she was comparing herself to me, something I'd never experienced with the others. I started snooping and found that they were talking during the day at work and made plans to hang the evening I left for a trip. She wasn't single...and when I left him, she stopped talking to him.lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had this kind of intuition about the other woman. I was grocery shopping early one morning and ran into my now-ex-spouses coworker. I knew her and liked and said hi, and in the moment she saw me and recognized me this look flashed over her face of total guilt and fear. At the time, I had no idea what to make of it and never said anything, because that would have been crazy, jealous wife territory. A year and half later I found out they were having an affair that had been a long time emotional affair before it turned physical.

+1. My experiences with two women were different. One practically would hide from me or avoid eye contact altogether. I was always super nice to her. I knew she had a crush on him, but initially thought she was just socially awkward or felt guilty about the crush around me. When I found out the truth, it all made sense (she got pregnant). I honestly prayed for her, because I believe she's a good person who was just yearning for validation and my loser ex preyed on that. The baby was stillborn...I wouldn't wish that hell on anyone. That was over a decade ago and I still wonder about her once in awhile and hope that she rebounded emotionally. My ex was relieved. This was a boyfriend, by the way. Just an ass.

That prepped me for the next woman. I'd met all of his girl friends but this one I met because I arrived sooner than expected. She was too defensive around me and I could tell that she was comparing herself to me, something I'd never experienced with the others. I started snooping and found that they were talking during the day at work and made plans to hang the evening I left for a trip. She wasn't single...and when I left him, she stopped talking to him.lol

Strange that all men cheat on you, maybe it's you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had this kind of intuition about the other woman. I was grocery shopping early one morning and ran into my now-ex-spouses coworker. I knew her and liked and said hi, and in the moment she saw me and recognized me this look flashed over her face of total guilt and fear. At the time, I had no idea what to make of it and never said anything, because that would have been crazy, jealous wife territory. A year and half later I found out they were having an affair that had been a long time emotional affair before it turned physical.

+1. My experiences with two women were different. One practically would hide from me or avoid eye contact altogether. I was always super nice to her. I knew she had a crush on him, but initially thought she was just socially awkward or felt guilty about the crush around me. When I found out the truth, it all made sense (she got pregnant). I honestly prayed for her, because I believe she's a good person who was just yearning for validation and my loser ex preyed on that. The baby was stillborn...I wouldn't wish that hell on anyone. That was over a decade ago and I still wonder about her once in awhile and hope that she rebounded emotionally. My ex was relieved. This was a boyfriend, by the way. Just an ass.

That prepped me for the next woman. I'd met all of his girl friends but this one I met because I arrived sooner than expected. She was too defensive around me and I could tell that she was comparing herself to me, something I'd never experienced with the others. I started snooping and found that they were talking during the day at work and made plans to hang the evening I left for a trip. She wasn't single...and when I left him, she stopped talking to him.lol

Strange that all men cheat on you, maybe it's you

You bumped a 7-month-old thread for that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had this kind of intuition about the other woman. I was grocery shopping early one morning and ran into my now-ex-spouses coworker. I knew her and liked and said hi, and in the moment she saw me and recognized me this look flashed over her face of total guilt and fear. At the time, I had no idea what to make of it and never said anything, because that would have been crazy, jealous wife territory. A year and half later I found out they were having an affair that had been a long time emotional affair before it turned physical.

+1. My experiences with two women were different. One practically would hide from me or avoid eye contact altogether. I was always super nice to her. I knew she had a crush on him, but initially thought she was just socially awkward or felt guilty about the crush around me. When I found out the truth, it all made sense (she got pregnant). I honestly prayed for her, because I believe she's a good person who was just yearning for validation and my loser ex preyed on that. The baby was stillborn...I wouldn't wish that hell on anyone. That was over a decade ago and I still wonder about her once in awhile and hope that she rebounded emotionally. My ex was relieved. This was a boyfriend, by the way. Just an ass.

That prepped me for the next woman. I'd met all of his girl friends but this one I met because I arrived sooner than expected. She was too defensive around me and I could tell that she was comparing herself to me, something I'd never experienced with the others. I started snooping and found that they were talking during the day at work and made plans to hang the evening I left for a trip. She wasn't single...and when I left him, she stopped talking to him.lol

Strange that all men cheat on you, maybe it's you

Hey doofus- how long did you spend combing old threads before you found one you thought worthy of your pathetic insult?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How hard can you. E working on your marriage if he is cheating and you don't care?

+1000

[Anonymous]

Why so vague about the "interest"? Would it identify you?

In any case travel with her for this interest is a huge red flag.

Something is up. Trust intuition