Is there a way I can convince him I'm not frivolous?

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Anonymous wrote:

You keep saying it's not about how much you spend and how he's not controlling but he is and apparently it is about money.

No, he's worried someone is either hacking into our checking account or our Amazon account. So it's "Hey, did you spend $64.20 on Amazon today?" "Yep, that was me, toilet paper and dog food." "Ok, just making sure." Like I said, this all started after the OPM leak and I think it made him paranoid.

Anonymous wrote:You both have trust issues. I've seen this with other military people. Even the ones with no kids. I get budgeting but I don't get not buying necessities. It's time for a financial talk. Work out a plan together so this doesn't repeat itself.

Yes, he distrusts hackers. Not me. Not sure what being military has to do with it.