Anyone else ever feel just, plain sad that they got divorced?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only sadness I felt is I didn't do it sooner. I wasted another 15 years of my life thinking it would change for the better. I did it for the kids sake and what a joke that was. Kids can sense an unhappy marriage. They were better off growing up without us being together. I know that now and I wish I knew it then.

Are you a man or a woman? How is your life now? Yup, you sound a lot like me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
XH was over here earlier today, and everything was so easy. It has always been easy for him to participate and contribute, give of himself and enjoy being cared for in turn.

BUT HE WON'T/DOESN'T and that's fucking SAD.

He sees it. But, it's just a thick, immovable wall for him. So sad.

What do you mean ?