Best friend dumps her kids on everyone

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Anonymous wrote:Oh here. Just wanted to post a quick update. BF got her MIL to pony up for her kids' tuition, so she's not going to put them in the local public school after all. I did tell neighbor her plan before this turn of events. She was horrified. When the news came that came up with another year of tuition for her kids, neighbor was practically making cartwheels down her driveway. The school is an affordable private by the way, not a 25k one. I have successfully avoided babysitting this year so far, once by pretending not to be home (I was in bed with a cold and DH took the girls to some activity. She texted me "since you're just lying in bed would it be ok if two of them watched a movie while you nap on the couch?" I told her I had gone for some tea at Starbucks). I think she knew this actually, and has really pulled away from me. I do love her but she's turned into SUCH a user it's really ruined our friendship. Hopefully when her kids are older we can try again to be friends.


Good for you! Btw, I also wonder this when people post stories like yours -- doesn't she read DCUM, too? Maybe she's seen this post? Did you change details?


No I didn't change many details because I want her to know I guess. She just sent me a weird text saying that "I treat my girls like they're made of porcelain". Not sure what that means but perhaps she found this and wanted me to understand why she never wants to babysit for me. If so, sorry BF. I love you but I'm not a free, always available babysitter.


If she will not care for her own kids, why would she care for yours. Just say no.
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