19 year old girl dating 25 year old guy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, when I think back to my years in college, I had 2 close friends who dated older men. Of course I was like, OMG, you're dating an old man, gross, why, blah blah. But, the reality is that it was harmless. .

Of course it was. Just proves the immature mindset of the average women. "OMG..gross."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
This was me and my bf as a sophomore in college. We had similar taste is movies/tv, enjoyed each others' company. Fizzled out because I got bored of the relationship and he was kind of a sad sack.

Doesn't say a whole lot about you dating "sad sack" guys.

[Anonymous]

OP's daughter wants to be fucked by a MAN not a boy. She's probably been boys that are her peers and is having the best sex of her life right now.

I think it's great for all parties involved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DD is 19 and has been dating/sleeping with a 25 year old guy for about a month now. They met online but became very close, very fast. They now spend all their free time together. She's in her first year of college but lives at home. He's a nice guy, has a job, etc but I'm wondering what he see's in a 19 year old? Men are attracted to youth, I know, but she's in such a different life stage than he is. I'm trying to think back to when I was that age. Is it okay/normal?

What does he see in her? Please check the words in bold.

+1

[Anonymous]

It depends on his personality. I agree with a pp that said invite him to dinner. In fact, invite him a few times and chat with him when he picks her up. If he's a good guy, he won't mind. If he's taking her seriously then he would want to get to know his future mil. Dh and I are 4 years apart, similar situation, and my parents got to know him. I liked that they got along.thty still get along 20 years later.

[Anonymous]

Come on people he is after tail. Nothing more and nothing less.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, when I think back to my years in college, I had 2 close friends who dated older men. Of course I was like, OMG, you're dating an old man, gross, why, blah blah. But, the reality is that it was harmless. .

Of course it was. Just proves the immature mindset of the average women. "OMG..gross."

PP - Maybe I should have included at least one more detail to support my "icky" conclusion. He was a high school teacher - not at my school, but still. And I was definitely in over my head. Thankfully I went away to college and that was the end of that.