But, it's not nitpicking. If it is offensive to me, why use it? |
No, you may not. Why would you offend someone if you don't have to? |
children of alumni also get a boost, if not guaranteed admission. what's your point? |
I thought that, in America, you can name your child whatever you want. However, what does it say about a person who judges another, not based on qualifications or merit, but on the name that they were given? |
Sure, you can name your child whatever you want. You can also burn a tattoo in your forehead saying "ghetto-boy." It is often not a good idea to do something just because, well, you can. |
| I know someone who was Caucasian (European American), but had a Hispanic name. She was called for a job interview. She was told later that she would never have been called for the interview, had they not thought she was a Latina. Her husband was not Hispanic but had a Latin sounding last name and her first name was also Latin sounding. |
Stop that practice as well. |
Being named Elena or Marta or Isabel is a bit different than being named Jelenax or hMarthh'a or Aisubol. The latter is what the Duke prof was criticizing. |
PP here, I see your point. Thanks for the analogy, it provided the clarification I needed. Are you seriously comparing burning a tatoo on your forehead with giving a child a non-western name? As if you'll answer, should non western-european immigrants change their surname to sound more appealing to white americans? Though I have an east African first and last name, I've wondered if should change my name to Chad Pappenfuse or Brandon O'Donnell in order to increase my chances of employment. |
| Hmm. 5 pages of comments on the duke racism controversy and just three on the BU professor racism. What foes this say about the dcum community? |
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I made the previous comment, and i happen to have a non-western name...which still is a real name. If you don't understand the difference between Ashok and Larykcsa...well, good luck! |
White people have lots of made up names. You are making a false distinction. On top of that, traditional African names still get discriminated against, even though they are not made up. |
Unless your daddy is a billionaire, being black is way more advantageous in college admissions than being a legacy. That's one reason I stopped interviewing for my ivy. |
Or http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rock_Springs_massacre or http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_Massacre_Cove or http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attack_on_Squak_Valley_Chinese_laborers,_1885 or http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_massacre_of_1871 or http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Francisco_riot_of_1877 or... |