Anonymous wrote:Op here : I'm appreciating everyone's thoughts. After my dd said that and i ignored it or dismissed it, since then we have visited them once and they us. So a lot of time had passed (almost a yr) and then I had my omg I didn't listen and further I am feeling the inappropriateness of yrs ago in a new way all of a sudden. So she had these two visits happily but frankly God forbid anything happened to her, I moved on yrs ago and she God forbid could have too. But it feels impossible to ignore my deep awareness of the inappropriateness now even if zero took place w her and I truly think she probably was saying what kids sometimes say when faced w seeing a reserved grownup . But It was like my frying pan to head moment last winter. Not willing to take a smidge of risk knowing what I do. While I hate this seems like out of clear blue sky what I can I do? That's where I am.
Share this with a therapist. Get a professional take on it. You seem to be ignoring this piece of advice. Why?
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