Guy: Mid 50s, Twice Divorced, 3 kids with the 2 exs…

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Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you are in the midst of starting some type of emotional relationship with this guy because you're not into your marriage. I wouldn't go that route personally, but you do you if you have a lower set of standards of what you feel is permissible to do when married.

As for this gem of a man - twice divorced, three kids from two baby mamas, hates his mother? He sounds AMAZING. I am sure you will be very happy as his third ex wife!

OP here. Lol, thank you for your candor. I'm still not so completely insane that I can't detach from this--I was envious of the very hot, romantic and seemingly perfect relationship he had with my friend in college/law school--so I'm aware that I would be fulfilling a dangerous fantasy. We Facetimed last night while I was folding laundry…

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I wouldn't.

Why don't you talk to him + get his side of things?

Just because a man has been divorced twice doesn't mean something is wrong w/him necessarily.

Maybe he just made two bad choices in women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't.

Why don't you talk to him + get his side of things?

Just because a man has been divorced twice doesn't mean something is wrong w/him necessarily.

Maybe he just made two bad choices in women.

JUST?!? He *married* these bad choices and then brought children into the world with these women. It is not "just," my dear, it is one huge mistake after another after another. Huge mistakes.

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Anonymous wrote:What would you think of this guy? Both of his ex wives married again. He had 1 DD with the first wife and a DD and a DS with second wife. Not sure how far along into the marriages the divorces happened. Good looking guy, fit, lawyer. Would you assume he's the problem?

I know this guy. Initials TB? If so, great guy. and go for it!!

Nope. Not his initials…lol

Wow, such a similar story. Remarkable.

Does he live in NC?

No, here in the DMV.

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Sounds like a winner.

But I guess $$$ will make any woman just turn a blind eye to issues.

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3rd times the charm?

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OP, if you are just looking for an affair partner you are going about this the wrong way- you are already thinking too deeply about this.

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Big Law?

Why are there so many slimeballs in Law and Politics?

Seriously, why?

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Anonymous wrote:So, what if someone got married when they were young and stupid, they had a baby and were divorced by mid-20's. Then get remarried 5-7 years later, have 2 more kids, and that end in divorce 15-20 years later? That would put you in your mid-50's easily.

I really don't see why that should disqualify a person from the dating pool. I'd definitely take into account the relationship he has with his exes and kids, though.

This sounds like too much drama. No thanks!

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a winner.

But I guess $$$ will make any woman just turn a blind eye to issues.

True. Just like a 22 yr old with a huge rack and a killer body turns older men into sugar daddies. Everyone has a price.

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a winner.

But I guess $$$ will make any woman just turn a blind eye to issues.

True. Just like a 22 yr old with a huge rack and a killer body turns older men into sugar daddies. Everyone has a price.

You mean turn idiots in to sugar daddies. There are some of us who wouldn't throw money at a young skank.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Big Law?

Why are there so many slimeballs in Law and Politics?

Seriously, why?

The law is a jealous mistress.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What would you think of this guy? Both of his ex wives married again. He had 1 DD with the first wife and a DD and a DS with second wife. Not sure how far along into the marriages the divorces happened. Good looking guy, fit, lawyer. Would you assume he's the problem?

Why on earth would you ever lower yourself to dating someone with kids from multiple relationships? Drama central.

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Anonymous wrote:OP--Ok scared to admit it because I would be flamed because, I am also 50s and married w/kids and have known this guy since college but we have't spoken in 30 years and he reached out to me and we've been chatting. I have an asexual marriage so this a pretty dangerous guy for me to be talking to probably. But he was so hot in college and still is.

Ding ding ding. If you only want a fuck buddy he's perfect. Move this over to the explicit forum