Guy: Mid 50s, Twice Divorced, 3 kids with the 2 exs…

[Anonymous]

What would you think of this guy? Both of his ex wives married again. He had 1 DD with the first wife and a DD and a DS with second wife. Not sure how far along into the marriages the divorces happened. Good looking guy, fit, lawyer. Would you assume he's the problem?

[Anonymous]

Taking a break.....and....



What do you think?

[Anonymous]

Yes. Not the right guy to marry and have kids with, though he might be good for a lot of other things. . .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Taking a break.....and....



What do you think?

So yeah? Sorry, I'm dense.

[Anonymous]

This is going to be my ex-H in a few more years (he's engaged now; age 46; DC lawyer).


Keep your new pal as a fcuk buddy if you want. He has congenital defects of personality, I can tell that from here. Do not procreate, do not move in together. If your bio clock is a' ticking, then move along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Taking a break.....and....



What do you think?

So yeah? Sorry, I'm dense.

Oh baby, he is the problem. Both ex-wives remarried? Good for them!

[Anonymous]

I think I know this guy. Oh wait - your guy is a lawyer. The one I know is a psychologist!

[Anonymous]

Yes and he's in NC.

[Anonymous]

You do NOT want to deal with 3 step kids from 2 moms. Don't care what his personality is, that right there is the deal breaker.

[Anonymous]

My ex found his stock had fallen, too, once he had two ex-wives. Women aren't exactly lining up to be lucky Mrs. Number Three. I'll leave the kids out of this.

One ex-wife is unfortunate; two is just careless.

[Anonymous]

OP here. One of them remarried another lawyer. Wouldn't that minimize, or greatly reduce the financial ties to the ex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. One of them remarried another lawyer. Wouldn't that minimize, or greatly reduce the financial ties to the ex?

Honey, if all you're worried about is the financial aspect of this arrangement, then you are completely missing the point. The guy is a loser and yes, two ex-wives and children with each is a MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR red flag. Move along, and quickly. His life will only get worse from this point.

[Anonymous]

He has way too much baggage for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. One of them remarried another lawyer. Wouldn't that minimize, or greatly reduce the financial ties to the ex?

Honey, if all you're worried about is the financial aspect of this arrangement, then you are completely missing the point. The guy is a loser and yes, two ex-wives and children with each is a MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR red flag. Move along, and quickly. His life will only get worse from this point.

Yup.

[Anonymous]

Probably a serial cheater