I'm in love with my daughter's bff's mother. oh crap.

[Anonymous]

Oh my OP. If you even go "there," you would surely be opening a HUGE can of worms + wrecking havoc on many people's lives...Many of them your own loved ones.

Try to think of the ones you love most before you think of doing anything irrational please.

First off, you have a wife who would be just devastated by this. Even worse, your daughter will not only be devastated at the demise of her family as she knows it, but the humiliation of her father and her friend's mother...A neighbor of all people for god's sake...Someone she will have to see on a daily basis one way or another!!

And when if this woman doesn't feel the same way about you?? Suppose you put yourself out there and make a fool of yourself + she isn't interested? Then your wife finds out, your daughter finds out, her friend finds out...And all the neighborhood does as well.

Wow...Is it really worth it to put your family through all of that hell for what you yourself are even wondering to US if it could even just be a little crush??!