I'm in love with my daughter's bff's mother. oh crap.
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Anonymous
| I think most marriages end in divorce. Is it because we marry the wrong people? |
Anonymous
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It is very romantic. However, recipe for disaster and you should not be doing anything about it.
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Anonymous
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Take this as a sign to look at what you feel you're lacking in your marriage and determine if you want to fix it. If you don't want to fix it, then decide you're going to end your marriage sensibly. Then start looking around for new soulmates.
What's lacking in your marriage may be minor, but start thinking about it because it can get a lot worse. |
Anonymous
| Wait. How is any if this romantic? |
Anonymous
lol, I was thinking the same thing. What grade are you in Op? |
Anonymous
He wrote "holding hands with her" vs. "pounding her against the playset/wall". According to DCUM low standards - that is romantic. |
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Honestly, the best way to resist temptation is to take yourself away from it (and I strongly suggest it - think of all the practical realities of a divorce - kids, money, stress, your wife etc.). Stop hanging out, as much as that will suck for your daughter.
And while you're doing that, ask yourself if you can focus any of that energy back on your wife. Only will this make it just a crush/infatuation. Otherwise, it's a life-ruiner. We all fantasize about others upon occasion. Normal. |
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OP here- I'm thinking I'll just ask her. What's the worst that could happen?
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Anonymous
Wrong. The OP had a "love at first sight, just met his soulmate" kind of reaction. In my book that's romantic. Of the heartpounding variety! Every spouse is not a soulmate. |
Anonymous
Careful, OP. |
Anonymous
I may be anti-romantic, but WTF is a soulmate? Like, out of 7,000,000,000 people on Earth, there's only one person you can truly connect with? Mine is probably a warden at a women's prison in Siberia. Just my luck. |
Anonymous
Ask her what exactly??? To hold hands with you??? Remember this is the married mother of your dd's friend. You're also married. Not a good idea, Op. |
Anonymous
| Seriously Op, don't lob a bomb like that into your daughter's friendship with her BFF. That would be incredibly selfish of you. |
Anonymous
Uh, +1000. What's the worst that could happen? Well, you could lose your marriage and, more importantly, the trust of your kid. |
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