Rent a 2nd place in a better boundary

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly I doubt you would ever get caught.
But don't think you are so superior to those non-DC residents who do it. You are free riding off the higher cost of real estate (and better schools) in the WOTP neighborhoods.

NP. You're stupid. ALL DC residents pay taxes to support the public schools. You're free-riding off the people who aren't even enrolled in DCPS. Get over yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is really simple. If you do not live IB (look up the definition), then you are OB. You can either move IB or you can find out if there are legal ways to attend as OB. If you live OB but claim to live IB (in whatever creative way you dream up), you would be breaking the law and would have to lie every day you send your child to school. You would have to require that your child lie and would be teaching your child that lying is OK.

You could pretend that you have the moral high ground, but you wouldn't. You would just be a liar and a cheat.

You sound unhinged. My kids go to plenty of friend's houses that are clearly OOB for our JKLMM school. I never think about how they got into the school. I can assure you the kids don't seem burdened by the fact they may be lying.

Uh. Maybe they're not lying and that's why they don't seem burdened. Maybe they entered OOB legitimately.

Exactly. The unhinged poster thinks everyone is lying. Even if they are, no one has a clue or cares!

Why is it unhinged to think ans say that lying is shitty and wrong? It IS wrong. It IS bad.

If I'm taking my Kindergarten kid to a playdate at an OOB house at a school that is closed to OOB students, you'd better believe I'm turned off by that.

They're liars. They think they're better than other people; that they don't have to play by the rules. "Moving in with grandpa" is the same thing.

I get that you're doing it for your kid, but it's wrong, and it implies that you think it's ok to cheat for your family because your family is more special than other families. Believe me, you're not the only family with the issue of living in bad to so-so school district. The fact that some people choose to solve that problem by cheating is reprehensible, in my opinion. Calling this kind of judgement unhinged isn't fair, it's defensive and it is suspect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is really simple. If you do not live IB (look up the definition), then you are OB. You can either move IB or you can find out if there are legal ways to attend as OB. If you live OB but claim to live IB (in whatever creative way you dream up), you would be breaking the law and would have to lie every day you send your child to school. You would have to require that your child lie and would be teaching your child that lying is OK.

You could pretend that you have the moral high ground, but you wouldn't. You would just be a liar and a cheat.

You sound unhinged. My kids go to plenty of friend's houses that are clearly OOB for our JKLMM school. I never think about how they got into the school. I can assure you the kids don't seem burdened by the fact they may be lying.

^This.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a Janney family that does this.

I also know a Brent family that does this.

It's not legal, but the likelihood they will get caught is small.

I don't understand the point of a gratuitous posting such as this. Either report what info you may have to the school admin or keep it to yourself.

I don't understand the point of a lot of the stuff people say on DCUM but that doesn't mean people don't have their own reasons for doing it. Presumably the PP "gratuitously" had a point she wanted to make, and did so. You get that with anonymous fora.

[Anonymous]

OP, if you do what you laid out you will be committing fraud and breaking the law. Anything can be rationalized but that is the bottom line. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Why is it unhinged to think ans say that lying is shitty and wrong? It IS wrong. It IS bad.

If I'm taking my Kindergarten kid to a playdate at an OOB house at a school that is closed to OOB students, you'd better believe I'm turned off by that.

They're liars. They think they're better than other people; that they don't have to play by the rules. "Moving in with grandpa" is the same thing.

I get that you're doing it for your kid, but it's wrong, and it implies that you think it's ok to cheat for your family because your family is more special than other families. Believe me, you're not the only family with the issue of living in bad to so-so school district. The fact that some people choose to solve that problem by cheating is reprehensible, in my opinion. Calling this kind of judgement unhinged isn't fair, it's defensive and it is suspect.

Seriously? You're going to pick your kid's playmates by their address and then have the temerity to judge the character of other people? You are unhinged.

Read that thread on the history of OOB. People have been moving around to find the best possible school option for generations. The flip side of your argument about what parents will do is that those families who remain in failing schools "don't value education." It's repeated on these forums so much, you'd think it were fact.

Public education is a resource for the public. We're all paying taxes for it - even families who send their kids to private schools. Which is where you should be so long as you think elitism is a virtue.

[Anonymous]

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Why is it unhinged to think ans say that lying is shitty and wrong? It IS wrong. It IS bad.

If I'm taking my Kindergarten kid to a playdate at an OOB house at a school that is closed to OOB students, you'd better believe I'm turned off by that.

They're liars. They think they're better than other people; that they don't have to play by the rules. "Moving in with grandpa" is the same thing.

I get that you're doing it for your kid, but it's wrong, and it implies that you think it's ok to cheat for your family because your family is more special than other families. Believe me, you're not the only family with the issue of living in bad to so-so school district. The fact that some people choose to solve that problem by cheating is reprehensible, in my opinion. Calling this kind of judgement unhinged isn't fair, it's defensive and it is suspect.

Seriously? You're going to pick your kid's playmates by their address and then have the temerity to judge the character of other people? You are unhinged.

Read that thread on the history of OOB. People have been moving around to find the best possible school option for generations. The flip side of your argument about what parents will do is that those families who remain in failing schools "don't value education." It's repeated on these forums so much, you'd think it were fact.

Public education is a resource for the public. We're all paying taxes for it - even families who send their kids to private schools. Which is where you should be so long as you think elitism is a virtue.

New Poster. I am IB for a truly awful school, which my daughter attends. I would never consider what OP is suggesting. What kind of message would that send to my child? We don't have a city-wide lottery. It was suggested and it failed. If you want a guaranteed right to go to a great school, then you actually have to live in the boundary. Otherwise, get in OOB or move to where you can afford to be Ib for a good school (further out 'burbs for us).

[Anonymous]

I get that you're doing it for your kid, but it's wrong, and it implies that you think it's ok to cheat for your family because your family is more special than other families. Believe me, you're not the only family with the issue of living in bad to so-so school district. The fact that some people choose to solve that problem by cheating is reprehensible, in my opinion.

This is really the crux of the issue, to me. It's not okay to lie and cheat. You can tell yourself you're doing it "for your family," but you're still lying and cheating.

[Anonymous]

No it's not. The crux of the issue is that I'm not sending my kid to a crap school so that a bunch of righteous a@$holes won't think I'm bad. And really- you have never used connections to get a job ect.? That's bullshit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No it's not. The crux of the issue is that I'm not sending my kid to a crap school so that a bunch of righteous a@$holes won't think I'm bad. And really- you have never used connections to get a job ect.? That's bullshit.

To me the worst part is the message you are sending to your kid and your values. I am working to make my extremely low performing school better for all kids and, if I fail, I will move to where I can afford to live and send my kid to a good school.

[Anonymous]

New Poster. I am IB for a truly awful school, which my daughter attends. I would never consider what OP is suggesting. What kind of message would that send to my child? We don't have a city-wide lottery. It was suggested and it failed. If you want a guaranteed right to go to a great school, then you actually have to live in the boundary. Otherwise, get in OOB or move to where you can afford to be Ib for a good school (further out 'burbs for us).

I want to say that's great, but I'm no more inclined to judge the decisions you make for your family than I am of anyone else's because I don't want you judging mine. My kid is also going IB to a so-so school (still with an OOB wait list) and I'm so focused on getting involved and doing what we can to contribute to our neighborhood school that I don't have time or desire to get uptight about where other kids live. And I'm not looking for a pat on the back.

As for what kids see and learn, I have more concern for the ones who are OOB at a school - and legitimately so - being under constant stgma and scrutiny. What are we teaching them?

[Anonymous]

How is using connections to get a job similar to lying about residency?

[Anonymous]

That is awesome for you. It's not the route we are taking. Why would I not take the option of it's there? What message would I be sending dropping my kid off at an awful school each day?! I am a teacher and I'm all about great neighborhood schools. We just don't have one. And I'm not in denial about what we are doing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How is using connections to get a job similar to lying about residency?

Simple- you use the options you have.

[Anonymous]

Lying is lying