Lol I wasn't that PP I was just amused at the naïveté... Hell yeah people have preconceived notions about children based on race, I'm not at all surprised that someone would find it hard to believe that the deviant girl described was white...that's completely preposterous to a lot of people. Everybody knows non-white kids are rowdy and violent with the exception of Asian kids who are quiet and studious...that's common perception/expectation, right? |
What a load of bull. You are moving because you had a teacher that you assumed was not politically correct? Very rarely does a teacher follow a kid in elementary school so why are you moving/ |
| If you are black, always expect to be descriminated against. You are living under the system of White Supremacy |
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Had this happen with my HS dd. I overheard she and her friends (multiple races) talking about a teacher and even the white kids agreed that the teacher treated the black kids much worse (penalized them for things he didn't penalize white kids for, didn't let them use the bathroom when they asked). DD didn't want me to report it because said the teacher was very mean and would retaliate.
I reached out to the vice principal anonymously and said I knew he couldn't do anything based on an anonymous report but wanted to let him to know in case he had a pattern of reports. I'm pretty sure the vice principal ignored, but at least it is on his radar screen in case there really is a pattern of behavior. |
I totally believe you on this, but here is my guess. At the Elementary level, teachers very quickly get to know who the hard workers are, etc. so by the third or fourth week in school, most teachers have this attitude. In MS and HS, it is more difficult. Teachers only see kids 45 minutes per day, classes are bigger, and classes often change from one semester to another. So there is much more stereotyping going on. I have three black kids. In ES, they were much more likely to be called out (in my mind, inappropriately) in the first couple of weeks of school and after that, became close with their teachers. (For instance, my third grader came home mortified last week because a teacher moved her for talking when it was the girl next to her talking. I know that I wasn't there to witness, but I know this kid (shy and obedient) and I saw her reaction and thus believe her. I'm sure that will take care of itself in a few weeks when the teacher comes to observe her behavior over a longer term.) My MS and HS kids, on the other hand, report something similar with much greater frequency. Of course, the kids have become teenagers so are likely misbehaving more than they did when younger. But we had multiple times last year when they had very believable stories of 'mild' discrimination, corroborated by friends. (These aren't occasions when there was a call home and they needed to come up with an excuse. They were occasions when the felt 'wronged' and wanted to complain about it, and they didn't frame it in terms of race but just general unfairness by the teacher.) My advice to my kids is to make sure they take actions to stand out as 'good kids' early in the school year so that teachers give them the benefit of the doubt later on. |
| pp here. I should note that the MS and HS kids only complained about one teacher each. Certainly not all, but more than should be happening! |
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I'd try reporting it to the Equity unit of MCPS if you aren't satisfied with the principal's action/inaction
https://montgomeryschoolsmd.org/departments/clusteradmin/equity/ |
THIS! Excellent advice and a roadmap on the most EFFECTIVE way to proceed. |
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I would encourage anyone and everyone to take an implicit bias test (google to find one free, online). Research tends to find that even minorities taking the test end up with some level of bias against minorities. I know that I consider myself very unbiased, but still ended up with a mild bias as a result.
You can take it privately and no one knows the result. While taking, you can assess whether you think the methodology is valid, and at the end, you can think about how your results may influence your own behavior subtly, on the margin. |
If you see something, say something. |
Racism only occurs in Alabama?? |
what do you call someone who pulls an old 2013 post whilst searching "racist" in the archives? |
Yes, it is very insightful! https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/takeatest.html |
LOL. race-baiting? |
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The minority (or targeted groups) parents have to demand supervision. Either they sit in class daily or they require someone sit there or videotape.
My son who is biracial suffered terribly under one such teacher in third grade. We only found out at the end of the year. It took him years to recover. |