How old were you when you had your first child?

Anonymous
24-I don't know any moms my age. And yes I planned on having a child young.
Anonymous
(so) young.
-PP
Anonymous
26
Anonymous
32 with first and 35 with second. Felt like I was about average with both.
Anonymous
43 with frist and final! The Good Egg
Anonymous
33
Anonymous
24 with first
27 second
pregnant now almost 30 (and done after this)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:25
Planning another for next year, at age 32

I had my DS at 25 (and DH was 24) and we were so happy we did it because we were both young and had so much energy 24/7! Also I was able to lose my 46 pregnancy pounds so easily without extreme diet/exercise. I was back to my normal petite figure just after 6 weeks (without breastfeeding...it didn't work for me), and I think it was because I was young. Now that our DS has just turned 7 and we talk about having another...but I'm 32 and I have gone through some health issues (thyroid), and so I'm so afraid of the big change....Our friends/family are very encouraging us because of the fact that we are still so young.....But we are so used to our life with one child (emotionally and financially), I'm afraid of the big change....
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:30, almost 31


Same.
Anonymous
33, 34, will be 36 when #3 is born
Anonymous
39 and 42.
Anonymous
33
Anonymous
37.5
Anonymous
I had just turned 36 when I had my first. My second is due a few months shy of 38.
Anonymous
I had my DS at 25 (and DH was 24) and we were so happy we did it because we were both young and had so much energy 24/7! Also I was able to lose my 46 pregnancy pounds so easily without extreme diet/exercise. I was back to my normal petite figure just after 6 weeks (without breastfeeding...it didn't work for me), and I think it was because I was young. Now that our DS has just turned 7 and we talk about having another...but I'm 32 and I have gone through some health issues (thyroid), and so I'm so afraid of the big change....Our friends/family are very encouraging us because of the fact that we are still so young.....But we are so used to our life with one child (emotionally and financially), I'm afraid of the big change....


You know, I thought things would be easier having my first baby in my 20s...and my pregnancy actually CAUSED a thyroid problem I lost weight pretty quickly at the beginning (though my cute figure will NEVER return due to a malshaped pelvis on a petite frame - it's nothing but one piece bathing suits for me from now on to hide a hideously ugly gut!), but it turns out that was because my thyroid had gone into overdrive after my daughter was born. Then it swung wildly the other direction and I put on 15 lbs. I now have to really work on diet and exercise to make sure I keep weight off - it has not been easy to lose and then maintain my weight. And I'm now on meds for the rest of my life, which apparently only happens in some ridiculously small percentage of women. Aren't I lucky? BLAH!

Of course I love my daughter, but the question "Isn't it all worth it?" is NOT one I care to answer...

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