About FARMS and ESOL kids:
My son was a FARMS and ESOL kid when he was at school. Honestly, I just cannot afford to leave my work to volunteer at his school. Also, I didn’t have any money to send him to extracurricular activities at that time. My son graduated from state university two year ago and now is a software engineer at Silicon Valley. His first year salary is over 100K. He cannot represent all FARMS and ESOL kids, but he is one of them. |
I don't know the exact percentages but it is perfectly diverse in my opinion. Best environment for kids to learn about diversity. I wouldn't want my kid to go to a school without ESOL students. They learn so much from each other at a young age and make friends with people of lots of different nationalities!!! |
FARMS and ESOL doesn't necessarily mean that the kids are not going to thrive and become successful. I just know that as someone who grew up in Bethesda the expectations were higher for me and my peers. It wasn't ok to just pass through school, we were encouraged to learn other languages, take honors classes, and AP courses in high school. Because so many others in my classes were trying to do the same, it made things easier in a way and made it a natural expectation. Everyone was going to go to college, there was no doubt about it. Looking at the graduate rates at Einstein, Blair and other high schools, they just aren't as high as BCC, Whitman, etc.
Some in my neighborhood send their kids to private school. I am just debating whether it is worth it to throw that private school money onto a mortgage and live in Bethesda or Chevy Chase rather than remain in the same neighborhood but possibly not send my child to the local school. I know a child's success has a lot to do with the child, the time parents put in, support, etc. but being surrounded by peers that also want to achieve is important too. Especially in high school. |
PP here - I didn't grow up rich either, I lived in an apartment with my single mom in Bethesda but I know I benefited from the environment. |
It is very sad but it is reality. 200K household income is not what it used to be. People with that income still have to make sacrifices when it comes to their homes, cars, vacations, schools, college, extra curricular activities. That is the unfortunate reality for this area. |
this has to be one of the dumbest ass things I have read. you know the parents are not involved because that is jnfo you got from people at tbe school not because you can ASSUME it from stats. |
what dies being PC have to do with it? The questions I asked yield the info parents want know...correct? |
PLEASE TELL ME THIS IS SARCASM...... |
PLEASE TELL ME THIS IS SARCASM...... |
Hey 13:36 - it's not a dumb assumption. ESOL kids have parents who don't speak English, and they typically are not active in the PTA, volunteering in class, etc. FARMS kids typically have parents who work and can't be active either. There's another thread where a mom talks about how parents are volunteering constantly in her Bethesda school in order to supplement the teacher (since kids aren't switched for math anymore, etc)....that sort of regular volunteering simply does not happen in a school with really high farms or ESOL....but it might be happening in schools with more moderate levels. And I can assure it does happen in schools with very low ESOL and farms bc there are many more parents who are SAHMs. That's just an obvious observation. Having said all of this, I don't know what the stats are for flora singer (no one does), but I do know that Oakland terrace has always had a very active PTA and volunteers (and I also know those parents aren't ESOL or farms). It is what it is. |
I thought flora singer pulled from all of the schools in silver spring that had overflow. Not just Oakland Terrace (which is better than some of the others). |
Nope. Flora pulled exclusively from OT. And OT was/is a great school in terms of test scores given the demographics. |
so only SAH parents are active in the school? so you gave assumptions about working parents AND FARMS families. An equal opportunity IDIOT. |
Here's the thing: I actually know people with kids at OT, Flora, a couple title 1s in Silver Spring, as well as more upscale schools (for lack of a better descriptor) in Bethesda, Potomac, Kensington, olney and brookeville. I know teachers and principals in mcps at the best and worst schools as well. And I have kids in mcps. I'm not making this stuff up. I'm not saying working parents aren't active in schools. I am saying farms parents typically do not volunteer in the classroom to assist with math and reading twice a week...but that does happen in more affluent schools with lots of SAHMs. And ESOL parents definitely do not volunteer in the classroom on a regular basis either. To be clear (since the pp seems a bit confused), I'm not saying these parents don't care about their kids and don't show up at school events (although any mcps teacher at a title I or focus school will tell you who does and does not show up for back to school night and class parties). And my other point about social and childcare issues is spot on as well. The simple fact is that it is rather easy to set up playdates and carpools at schools with lots of SAHMs (or nannies who drive). There was another thread about these sorts of observations recently...I think it centered on a school in Rockville...and a poster explained all of this much more eloquently than I can (haven't slept all week thanks to multiple sick kids). |
are parents concerned about sending their kids to Einstein eventually? |