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| I am really heartened to hear from these (thoughtful) YY parents. But I have to agree with 03:40, the Russian-speaking parent who went to a YY Open House. I too am Chinese American and was a bit surprised by the tone of the principal's response when asked how many Chinese-speaking families there were at the school. Sigh. And I appreciate she is thinking of kids and curriculum and teachers first and foremost and she doesn't suffer fools lightly. But both she and the executive director would really do a huge service to the school they so love and want to succeed by simply being a little more polite -- that's a basic thing. And perhaps less defensive, too, that would go a long, logng way. |
| Likewise. My pre-k DS actually dreams in Chinese sometimes and will burst out with Chinese almost as often as English. You'll also see the preK kids speaking Chinese together on the playground. It is sort of mind-boggling and way more than I expected. By 2nd grade, btw, on Chinese days the kids are required to speak Chinese all day wherever they are. To the PP, how much time have you actually spent on the playground during the school day? As far as I know, parents don't routinely hang out there... |
ITA! Way, WAY more than what I expected too. Maybe it's b/c they're so young + full immersion, etc. PreK has been amazing! |
You are such a TRANSPLANT!
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Great you're ABC and part of ABC culture... I'm the other Asian person, born and raised partially there, at the beginning of the thread. Have many ABC friends but have no desire to have DC learn from ABCs. You know you are not considered "Chinese" by those born and raised in China but Americans - and no matter what you want to believe, your accent is "off". I knew this was going to devolve into a pissing match of who's more Asian, but I think the PP above who would like more ethnic Chinese in a Chinese immersion school has a good point. My family is Russian. My DS is in a Russian-language preschool, where business is conducted entirely in Russian. About 75% of kids are Russian, the other quarter are American with some sort of family connection to mutterland. All teachers are native Russians. And that's why they have my business. If there was an odd American teacher there (in addition to a dozen Russian ones) who happened to be fluent in Russian and our culture, I may have considered it. But to have DS in a ostensibly Russian preschool where the overwhelming majority of personnel speak foreign-accented Russian and don't know the culture natively? Nyet. May as well do Bright Horizons. At Yu Ying the Chinese teachers are all Chinese. The English teachers are American. So they aren't learning Chinese from Americans with accents. Nor English from the Chinese with accents. Amazing how much misinformation and vitriol Yu Ying incites on this board! |
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Yup, my experience too. The kids speak to each other in Chinese when in a Chinese classroom environment and in English when on the the playground. Just as I noticed at every other immersion school we visited. (Or with friends who are trying to raise their kids bilingual). I don't think that would change if there were 50/50 home Chinese speakers (which I don't get how people on this board still do not understand is not even possible for Yu Ying to do if they wanted). After just one year of Pre-K my child can read whole books in Chinese and carry on conversations with Chinese friends. But this is just one aspect of her education at Yu Ying. I too had a choice between MV and Yu Ying and as a Spanish speaker (not native) and after having our child home with a Spanish speaking only nanny for 4 years, I thought I would hands down prefer a Spanish immersion. However, when I compared the two schools I felt much more comfortable with Yu Ying over MV. MV may grow to be a great school but its just still too early for me to bank on. The IB curriculum also appealed to me more. The main thing I want for my child is early exposure to a second language- whatever that language may be. And given that Chinese is such a difficult and vastly different language from most of the others options out there, even if she doesn't use it on a daily basis as an adult I can't see how it would not be educationally beneficial. Growing up in SoCal I always assumed Spanish would be the most useful to learn and spent a ton of time, effort and money as a teen and early adult to gain a decent level of proficiency. But in my international focused job I almost never use it and wish I had learned French instead as it would be far more useful to me specifically. So, despite my initial strong preference for Spanish we went with Yu Ying and are so glad we did. I guess just think about what your various priorities are and pick the school that is the best balance of those knowing that whatever you decide, you are giving your child a great opportunity. |
Well given all of the attacks the school gets that they don't have more Chinese American kids- something that is beyond their control- I can understand why they are a little defensive and tired of responding to the same question. I agree it doesn't excuse being rude and its a shame that this one interaction would deter families away from what is a fabulous school, but it is sounds like people are lobbing this question in an accusatory way which may be why the respond in this manner. I participate in a car pool and am amazed that the kids often all speak to each other in Chinese on the way home. This is probably because they think of it as a secret language I won't understand (which makes us nervous about what they will plot in their older years!) but whatever the reason, it is amazing to hear them! |
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| So does the YY principal not speak Chinese? I wasn't able to tell from this thread. |
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I didn't know that she didn't speak Chinese when I went to an info night and, so, made the critical mistake of asking her a question in Mandarin during a break (must have been thinking in Chinese at the time). After she snapped "speak English!" at me in front of other parents, we left early. Sorry, but ethnic Chinese families do tend to care that the principal isn't Chinese and doesn't speak Chinese. But then her non-Chinese speaking leadership does seem to be what the great majority of YY parents, at least those I've talked to, want. So they continue to get it and that's that. Nothing you can do as an outsider but look for another ES option, and get your kid to heritage Chinese lessons and/or an immersion school in the burbs. No shortage of either for the determined, things work out. |
What is up with the Chinese parents on this thread?? |
I am curious are the principals at Cleveland, Tyler, Oyster, Munde Verde, And DC Bilingual Hispanic and Spanish. Are they fluent Spanish speakers. Is the principal at Stokes native French speaking, and or fluent. Or is this a requirement that is limited to YY and ABCs are asking for preferential treatment I don't get the hate and I am definitely not one who is overly enthralled with YY Do the posters on DCUM just need something to bitch and disagree about. |