Do ex-Sorority girls make good wife material?? Or stay away??

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Anonymous wrote:For what it is worth, my wife was in a sorority at a college right here in DC. Her sorority was for the most pretty and popular girls, and not surprisingly, she has turned out to be a perfect wife. Beautiful, loving, sophisticated, successful, and a great Mom to three boys. She is fantastic in the sack, and ready to go at it whenever I am, if not more. Politically she is very conservative, caring, and pro-life. I don't know for sure if all this comes from the training she got in her sorority or just who she is, but I hit a home run in the wife department. I would give her sorority at least some of the credit.

totally agree. this could be written almost verbatim about my wife (aside from the fact that she went to college at UNC). it's hard to say whether being in a sorority makes somebody into good wife material, or if sororities simply attract the type of women who are destined to be the best wives. but there is certainly a correlation between being in a sorority and being an amazing wife.

How many wives have you had?

just one, fortunately.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I guess I see pros and cons. They usually are squared away in the looks department but the conformist mindset might get stifling.

They are very social. They are joiners. They like to build community. They have friends for life.

What’s wrong with that?

I’ve read this whole thread and I like this answer the best.

[Anonymous]

My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

And you just found this forum to brag about your life? BS

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

And you just found this forum to brag about your life? BS

No, I saw the comments about sorrority girls and thought I’d share my personal experience. You’ll find wonderful, and dreadful, people everywhere.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

And you just found this forum to brag about your life? BS

I hate to bring politics into this, but I would bet that the happy, successful family with the sorority wife is conservative, and the angry sarcastic woman is a Kamala loving lib.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My only issue I can think of is from personal experience. The sore-whore-ity girls that I knew were run through pretty hard by me and my boys. LOL.

You are clearly not good husband material. I’d stay away. Far away.

Wouldn’t want you in my sphere, but appreciate you staying over there on your side of the streets. I have been married 26 years, 5 kids, DW stays home and I have never cheated. I wasn’t husband material back then, but I became husband material a few years later. In all honesty, I haven’t spoken to a woman in years where her sorority came up in conversation.

I knew my husband when we were in college, although we only dated for one semester when we were there. I knew him well enough to know that he was not « run[ning] through » a bunch of random sorority women. He actually liked and respected the women he knew, and still does today.

Bragging about your sexual exploits in college and using the nasty little pejorative you did shows exactly what kind of man you are.

I’m guessing that people around you see you for who you are. It’s difficult to hide certain traits.

Wow no sense of humor, judgmental and unforgiving, your husband won the lottery with you. Enjoy your untarnished life of perfect decisions.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

And you just found this forum to brag about your life? BS

I hate to bring politics into this, but I would bet that the happy, successful family with the sorority wife is conservative, and the angry sarcastic woman is a Kamala loving lib.

I’m the poster with the ex-sorority wife. We both voted against Trump. We’re probably moderate-conservative politically.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My only issue I can think of is from personal experience. The sore-whore-ity girls that I knew were run through pretty hard by me and my boys. LOL.

You are clearly not good husband material. I’d stay away. Far away.

Wouldn’t want you in my sphere, but appreciate you staying over there on your side of the streets. I have been married 26 years, 5 kids, DW stays home and I have never cheated. I wasn’t husband material back then, but I became husband material a few years later. In all honesty, I haven’t spoken to a woman in years where her sorority came up in conversation.

I knew my husband when we were in college, although we only dated for one semester when we were there. I knew him well enough to know that he was not « run[ning] through » a bunch of random sorority women. He actually liked and respected the women he knew, and still does today.

Bragging about your sexual exploits in college and using the nasty little pejorative you did shows exactly what kind of man you are.

I’m guessing that people around you see you for who you are. It’s difficult to hide certain traits.

Wow no sense of humor, judgmental and unforgiving, your husband won the lottery with you. Enjoy your untarnished life of perfect decisions.

Who did you think would find your comments about sorority girls funny?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would be willing to bet that the OP was not written by a man trying to find a wife. My guess is that the question was simply meant to be thought-provoking and stimulate the dialogue.
OP, if you are still reading, can you tell us?

Yeah, pretty much spot on. Appreciate the comment. As somebody else mentioned, although I am single, I do admit I am not currently husband material.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It is hard to generalize, but the stereotypical sorority girl (especially in the South) is perfect wife material. Beautiful, family oriented, social, sexy, well dressed, cares what people think of her, and just a tiny bit snobbish.
The perfect wife IMHO.

Awful. But water finds its own level.

sorry you weren't chosen for the sorority(ies) you wanted. but don't let that define you.

Ha! I went to Wellesley. No Greek life.

Were you a lesbian even before going to Wellesley? (not that there’s anything wrong with that).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

This. There are no guarantees in life, but a man has much better odds of having a happy life such as this if he marries a sorority girl, rather than a girl from Wellesley who laughs at the sorority scene.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

And you just found this forum to brag about your life? BS

I hate to bring politics into this, but I would bet that the happy, successful family with the sorority wife is conservative, and the angry sarcastic woman is a Kamala loving lib.

Anyone who finds their way to the phrase "Kamala loving lib" does not "hate to bring politics into this." I'm pretty sure you find a way to bring politics into discussions about sports, family, weather, chili recipes and anything else that might crop up when talking with the people who aren't bored of you yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is hard to generalize, but the stereotypical sorority girl (especially in the South) is perfect wife material. Beautiful, family oriented, social, sexy, well dressed, cares what people think of her, and just a tiny bit snobbish.
The perfect wife IMHO.

Awful. But water finds its own level.

sorry you weren't chosen for the sorority(ies) you wanted. but don't let that define you.

DP. You presented a very white Southern stereotype of a sorority, which says more about you than about any of the women you address.

well that is an interesting take. here is what I presented:

"Beautiful, family oriented, social, sexy, well dressed, cares what people think of her, and just a tiny bit snobbish."

in my experience, that describes sorority girls of all races. are you saying that non-Whites lack those traits or don't value them?

That is not how many Black service-oriented sororities would describe their priorities, so no.

If you want to make racist assumptions, such as that the sororities which "count" as sororities are image-based, sex-based, and snobbish, then you do you.n It's gross, but a lot of people are gross, and here we are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been together 24 years now. She was in a sorrority when she was in college and has been a great wife. Our only son moved off to college and we’re a tight-knit family.

She’s a lot of things - she’s had an outstanding career in tech, built up a rental property business as a side hustle with millions in assets, particpated in all of our son’s school/sports related activities, stayed super fit and has been a wonderful wife to me.

She just left to work out and I’m running to the store to grab some stuff for dinner. We’re going to cook, have some wine, wrecked the bed and then fall asleep together.

And you just found this forum to brag about your life? BS

I hate to bring politics into this, but I would bet that the happy, successful family with the sorority wife is conservative, and the angry sarcastic woman is a Kamala loving lib.

Anyone who finds their way to the phrase "Kamala loving lib" does not "hate to bring politics into this." I'm pretty sure you find a way to bring politics into discussions about sports, family, weather, chili recipes and anything else that might crop up when talking with the people who aren't bored of you yet.

Precisely.