Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?

[Anonymous]

OP how do you know he lives alone?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.

If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Well, who is managing the reality of the SN kid when he could be home helping instead of escaping reality?

Did you know that people can take turns?

PP specifically said they didn't, but keep going off on your imaginary knighthood for some loser dad who can't be F'd to help out with his kid during the day.

NP. Jesus Christ, calm down. You know these people exactly as well as PP, which is not at all.

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Anonymous wrote:Why are you monitoring him? Mind your own beezwax.

I am? As I said, it’s hard not to notice his distinctive vehicle as I come and go.

Maybe you could buy him a less "distinctive vehicle"?

I know you’re trying to be funny, but this is a dumb joke. If OP bought him a car, she’d recognize the car. It would still be distinctive to her.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, tell us what nefarious things you think he might be doing.

She thinks he's whacking it, I'm sure. That, or getting high on vehicle emmissions/poluting the air.

Don’t joke about it. This was my ex. It’s definitely a thing.

At least he's doing it away from others, though. True perverts and weirdos like an unwilling audience.

Yeah, do not normalize jerking off in random parking lots in neighborhoods where children and women frequently walk by. THEY ARE the unwilling audience. It’s creepy. It’s TRULY PERVERTED.

Stop peeping into people's cars, pervert.

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Anonymous wrote:I’d like to point out that men never post things like this.

You clearly haven't been on nextdoor

I’d question the masculinity of anyone that identifies as a man on nextdoor.

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MYOB

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Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.

If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Well, who is managing the reality of the SN kid when he could be home helping instead of escaping reality?

Did you know that people can take turns?

PP specifically said they didn't, but keep going off on your imaginary knighthood for some loser dad who can't be F'd to help out with his kid during the day.

NP. Jesus Christ, calm down. You know these people exactly as well as PP, which is not at all.

PP knows their kid, industry he works in, the wife. Sounds like they know them a lot more than you.

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A car burns about half gallon of gas per hour when idle. Expensive alternative to lithium battery.

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He's trying to get cellphone service because the neighborhood crazies won't allow a new cell tower.

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Anonymous wrote:I’d like to point out that men never post things like this.

You clearly haven't been on nextdoor

I’d question the masculinity of anyone that identifies as a man on nextdoor.

Vs DC Urban Moms ?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.

If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Well, who is managing the reality of the SN kid when he could be home helping instead of escaping reality?

Did you know that people can take turns?

PP specifically said they didn't, but keep going off on your imaginary knighthood for some loser dad who can't be F'd to help out with his kid during the day.

NP. Jesus Christ, calm down. You know these people exactly as well as PP, which is not at all.

The irony of cursing someone else while telling them to calm down. Take your own advice, go touch grass.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.

If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Well, who is managing the reality of the SN kid when he could be home helping instead of escaping reality?

Did you know that people can take turns?

PP specifically said they didn't, but keep going off on your imaginary knighthood for some loser dad who can't be F'd to help out with his kid during the day.

NP. Jesus Christ, calm down. You know these people exactly as well as PP, which is not at all.

PP knows their kid, industry he works in, the wife. Sounds like they know them a lot more than you.

I didn’t claim to know them. Again, try to calm down.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, tell us what nefarious things you think he might be doing.

She thinks he's whacking it, I'm sure. That, or getting high on vehicle emmissions/poluting the air.

Don’t joke about it. This was my ex. It’s definitely a thing.

At least he's doing it away from others, though. True perverts and weirdos like an unwilling audience.

Yeah, do not normalize jerking off in random parking lots in neighborhoods where children and women frequently walk by. THEY ARE the unwilling audience. It’s creepy. It’s TRULY PERVERTED.

Stop peeping into people's cars, pervert.

Stop being an exhibitionist , degenerate!

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Anonymous wrote:OP didn't say how long he does this for

OP here. I have no clue! I’m not sitting and watching him! I literally just notice him parked there as I come and go. It just strikes me as odd and I can’t figure out why he chooses this desolate field in his own neighborhood over other places for solitude. Like a pretty park (which can be found from each direction around our neighborhood), for example.

Could just be a little unhinged. Someone in my neighborhood walks around talking to trees.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.

If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Except the mother doesn't get the same break. He literally parks near my house for 8+h a day sometimes. I MAJORLY feel for his wife, who has to deal with the household while he fu**s off and just literally sits in his car.

Alternately, he could be working from home. My neighbors' sn child makes a lot of noise. Constantly. They take turns leaving the house to make calls. Neither can work from home. They work in shifts. Sometimes at the library, sometimes in their car, and sometimes at a coffee shop. You never know what people are going through or what agreements couples have.

NP. My first thought would definitely be that he was working from his car because the house is too noisy or chaotic.

It's one thing for op and that pp to be nosy, but they are also judgemental based on their stupid assumptions and projections.

Judgmental to whom? Thoughts don’t hurt anyone, PP.

Judgemental to parents of special needs children.

Funny you have no sympathy to the mother of the special needs child(ren).

I have sympathy for both while understanding I have no idea what either of them is going through or what arrangements and agreements they have.