Should I just wear a bikini?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can someone share some brands of bikinis that work well for mid-40 year olds. Not too skimpy, supportive, flattering.

Plus if you can share some styles that work with shorter (5’4”), curvy, short waist.

I am 5"4" with large boobs and short waist. I wear a lot of Vix, their DD cup options actually support large cups. But Monday has by far the best selection and variety to hit a specific size.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m mid 50s, tall, small waist, small chest, big hips, good butt, but overall 20-25 pounds overweight.

It took me years to get out of the frumpy mom-tankini that I lived in at our community pool when my kids were little, and a few years ago, I made the switch to one piece suits and I feel better.

But now I’m like, seeing stuff on Instagram about what the hell, just wear a bikini, and I wondered if there really are flattering two piece suits for my body type. Long waisted, if that matters. Or should I stick to the one piece suits.

No woman past about 25 should wear a bikini.

I don't understand this. I am 39 and weigh the same as I did in high school. The only real change is loose skin on my stomach. But men can walk around with their beer guts and man boobs proudly on display their whole lives?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m mid 50s, tall, small waist, small chest, big hips, good butt, but overall 20-25 pounds overweight.

It took me years to get out of the frumpy mom-tankini that I lived in at our community pool when my kids were little, and a few years ago, I made the switch to one piece suits and I feel better.

But now I’m like, seeing stuff on Instagram about what the hell, just wear a bikini, and I wondered if there really are flattering two piece suits for my body type. Long waisted, if that matters. Or should I stick to the one piece suits.

No woman past about 25 should wear a bikini.

I don't understand this. I am 39 and weigh the same as I did in high school. The only real change is loose skin on my stomach. But men can walk around with their beer guts and man boobs proudly on display their whole lives?

Not sure why you turned this on men? The same men doing that have an equal and opposite women who probably should not be wearing certain items according to your standards. It's all stupid - wear what you want and be confident and not give AF what other people think.