How many of you know a cheater/someone currently cheating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

No we aren't. Grow up.

Yes we are just own it.

[Anonymous]

do couples that cheat on each other count?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boss with a peer of mine from work. Both married with kids.

How did you find out?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My sister in law cheated on my brother.

One colleague is currently having an affair with another colleague.

An old friend had an emotional / physical but according to her not sexual affair that led to the end of her marriage.

I know two other acquaintances whose husbands both cheated.

Physical is sexual. And she’s full of sh@t.

According to her, they were physically affectionate with lots of cuddling etc but they didn't have sex. Who knows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My sister in law cheated on my brother.

One colleague is currently having an affair with another colleague.

An old friend had an emotional / physical but according to her not sexual affair that led to the end of her marriage.

I know two other acquaintances whose husbands both cheated.

Physical is sexual. And she’s full of sh@t.

According to her, they were physically affectionate with lots of cuddling etc but they didn't have sex. Who knows.

I know someone who rationalized their cheating because they did everything but PIV.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My sister in law cheated on my brother.

One colleague is currently having an affair with another colleague.

An old friend had an emotional / physical but according to her not sexual affair that led to the end of her marriage.

I know two other acquaintances whose husbands both cheated.

Physical is sexual. And she’s full of sh@t.

According to her, they were physically affectionate with lots of cuddling etc but they didn't have sex. Who knows.

I know someone who rationalized their cheating because they did everything but PIV.

She’s FOS and trying to save face. Her husband divorced because she was banging him…and likely others over the course of the marriage.

[Anonymous]

seems like a nice guy late 50's, male, family man, devoted dad, 1x a week because wife gives no sex

[Anonymous]

Two co-workers are having an emotional affair. Frequent solo long lunches. She has a studio close by, so it may have already become a physical one.

[Anonymous]

My ex cheated on me. The other woman, a friend of mine at the time, also cheated on her husband. 5 little kids involved and two homes broken.

I don’t know of anyone else in my circle who has cheated or been cheated on.

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who I think cheated. Her marriage ended rapidly - her choice and then she was in a serious relationship with someone else very soon after they separated.

I don't know for sure but the timeline is pretty suspect to me. Additionally when she had married her husband, she had planned to divorce him in about 10 years...she was marrying him to get specific things and her plan was to divorce later on as she wasn't madly in love with him but he checked the right boxes.

[Anonymous]

I know three different single women. All late thirties. All sleeping with married men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who I think cheated. Her marriage ended rapidly - her choice and then she was in a serious relationship with someone else very soon after they separated.

I don't know for sure but the timeline is pretty suspect to me. Additionally when she had married her husband, she had planned to divorce him in about 10 years...she was marrying him to get specific things and her plan was to divorce later on as she wasn't madly in love with him but he checked the right boxes.

I know her too.

[Anonymous]

My DH. We’re late 40s. Been together 22 years. With a coworker. It’s been a year and he still won’t admit it but I have proof. So there’s a statistic.

We were having daily and pretty interesting intimacy until his job relocated him and we lived apart. He found her then. But then again, I think he knew her online and during travel befoee that if I use my brain.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Does it count if I know the "other women"? I am shocked at the number of friends I have who have dated a married man at some point. Shocked.

Well she's complicit in participating in an unethical relationship, at a minimum. And any relationship that is built on lying to someone is unethical.

Eh, people have all sorts of arrangements and understandings in their marriages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH. We’re late 40s. Been together 22 years. With a coworker. It’s been a year and he still won’t admit it but I have proof. So there’s a statistic.

We were having daily and pretty interesting intimacy until his job relocated him and we lived apart. He found her then. But then again, I think he knew her online and during travel befoee that if I use my brain.

Is the affair still ongoing?