How many of you know a cheater/someone currently cheating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have about 7 friends that cheated or were cheated on, that doesn’t count the dozen or so coworkers and a handful of neighbors.

I think 20% is an extremely low number

+1 yeah it’s very dated.

Online dating blew the door off for cheaters. It made it too easy to dial up an easy hookup. Tons of married people finding sex partners online.

Surveys are inaccurate because cheaters don’t answer honestly—they are liars.

Now that I’m in my 50s I know so many marriages that blew up due to the wife or husband’s cheating. There are actually more women cheaters in my area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm divorcing a cheater in his 40s. Not sure if he hid it well or I am just overly trusting but it went on a long time before I got suspicious. He says he hates himself now, but who knows how he really feels. Dude is defective

+1 50s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

No we aren't. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have about 7 friends that cheated or were cheated on, that doesn’t count the dozen or so coworkers and a handful of neighbors.

I think 20% is an extremely low number

+1 yeah it’s very dated.

Online dating blew the door off for cheaters. It made it too easy to dial up an easy hookup. Tons of married people finding sex partners online.

Surveys are inaccurate because cheaters don’t answer honestly—they are liars.

Now that I’m in my 50s I know so many marriages that blew up due to the wife or husband’s cheating. There are actually more women cheaters in my area.

Which area has more women cheaters than men cheaters?

[Anonymous]

I know a handful of people whose marriages ended due to cheating....in two cases, the cheating spouse sought out job opportunities involving lots of travel to help cover their tracks.

[Anonymous]

Does it count if I know the "other women"? I am shocked at the number of friends I have who have dated a married man at some point. Shocked.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does it count if I know the "other women"? I am shocked at the number of friends I have who have dated a married man at some point. Shocked.

Well she's complicit in participating in an unethical relationship, at a minimum. And any relationship that is built on lying to someone is unethical.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does it count if I know the "other women"? I am shocked at the number of friends I have who have dated a married man at some point. Shocked.

Well she's complicit in participating in an unethical relationship, at a minimum. And any relationship that is built on lying to someone is unethical.

May she one day get married with kids and be middle aged and find out her husband was banging some Ho. It will hit a bit different for her when she’s looking at her kids and life and the gut wrenching pain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does it count if I know the "other women"? I am shocked at the number of friends I have who have dated a married man at some point. Shocked.

Well she's complicit in participating in an unethical relationship, at a minimum. And any relationship that is built on lying to someone is unethical.

May she one day get married with kids and be middle aged and find out her husband was banging some Ho. It will hit a bit different for her when she’s looking at her kids and life and the gut wrenching pain.

Unfortunately- the women dating married men are almost always the future married women that cheat in their marriages.

[Anonymous]

My boss with a peer of mine from work. Both married with kids.

[Anonymous]

I don't know anyone doing this.

[Anonymous]

A friend posted for his wife’s birthday today about how she’s his queen and his soul mate. Made me want to puke. He was cheating while she was pregnant. Just a disgusting piece of trash.

[Anonymous]

I know someone at work cheating on his pregnant wife.

[Anonymous]

My sister in law cheated on my brother.

One colleague is currently having an affair with another colleague.

An old friend had an emotional / physical but according to her not sexual affair that led to the end of her marriage.

I know two other acquaintances whose husbands both cheated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My sister in law cheated on my brother.

One colleague is currently having an affair with another colleague.

An old friend had an emotional / physical but according to her not sexual affair that led to the end of her marriage.

I know two other acquaintances whose husbands both cheated.

Physical is sexual. And she’s full of sh@t.