How many of you know a cheater/someone currently cheating?

[Anonymous]

And are they married, male female how old? I'm wondering about the stats that say about 20% of spouses are cheating, and if it really is that high, how do they hide it without other people knowing?

[Anonymous]

Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

[Anonymous]

I know a woman currently cheating. My wife told me. Someone else told my wife. Supposedly she was caught kissing and holding hands with another man in another state during a work trip

[Anonymous]

Yep, 30yo married female coach at gym with 35yo unmarried male coach. Kids involved. Gross and sad.

[Anonymous]

I work in a commercial gym and have done for years. I've seen WAY more than enough examples. I've seen a fitness influencer come in for a couple of months and sleep with over ten different regulars, some of whom were not single. I've seen the same few guys pretty much dominate the "low key" casual sex scene. I've simply seen it all. From many different kinds of women. I've seen lawyers in their 40's behave like girls in their early twenties when it comes to being messed around by an absolute loser who happens to have tattoos and a beard and does gear. I've seen the nicest most unassuming girl I've ever known cheat almost without hesitation. I've known of married men and women regularly sleeping around and messaging each other. It's happening. People, and I mean totally normal regular nice people, are cheating and sleeping around way more than you think. WAY more than you think.

[Anonymous]

I have about 7 friends that cheated or were cheated on, that doesn’t count the dozen or so coworkers and a handful of neighbors.

I think 20% is an extremely low number

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

Ditto. Married male in his 50s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I work in a commercial gym and have done for years. I've seen WAY more than enough examples. I've seen a fitness influencer come in for a couple of months and sleep with over ten different regulars, some of whom were not single. I've seen the same few guys pretty much dominate the "low key" casual sex scene. I've simply seen it all. From many different kinds of women. I've seen lawyers in their 40's behave like girls in their early twenties when it comes to being messed around by an absolute loser who happens to have tattoos and a beard and does gear. I've seen the nicest most unassuming girl I've ever known cheat almost without hesitation. I've known of married men and women regularly sleeping around and messaging each other. It's happening. People, and I mean totally normal regular nice people, are cheating and sleeping around way more than you think. WAY more than you think.

And you're basing this on... couples going out of your gym at the same time, chatting and laughing? What proof do you have of all this cheating?

[Anonymous]

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

There are hot women at 60. For instance, who is your mom banging rt (beside dad)?

[Anonymous]

Maybe the numbers are on the rise, apparently cheating is feminist self care;
https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/cheating-is-now-described-feminist-act-self-care-reflection-broken-culture

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

There are hot women at 60. For instance, who is your mom banging rt (beside dad)?

My mom's dead, so she's not banging anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

Well definitely not me which is why he went elsewhere. Happily divorcing! Affair discovery forced the issue so it was a blessing in disguise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married to one. Male. 60. Didn't hide it well.

Ew. Who'd want to be with a 60 yr old if they're not married to them? They're so old and wrinkly.

According to women on this forum, younger men in their 30s prefer 60yo women.

[Anonymous]

Married 40yo woman. That’s the only one I’ve known since we were single in our 20s.