Found sex toy in duffle bag

[Anonymous]

Same happened to me years ago. It was a butt plug. We threw it out.

[Anonymous]

op update? What did you do?

[Anonymous]

you could use it as an opportunity to discuss safe sex etc but other than that he's in HS

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:op update? What did you do?

OP discovered it was actually her husband’s toy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:op update? What did you do?

OP discovered it was actually her husband’s toy.

Is this the best you’ve got? Yawn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

This. Bunch of prudes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Same happened to me years ago. It was a butt plug. We threw it out.

That would be more concerning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You all need to chill out. Sex toys are not a big deal.

Haven’t you heard that giving each other sex toys has become something teens do as a joke &/or for fun. It’s becoming common for girls to gift vibrators. You can buy them on Amazon for pete’s sake!

Frankly I think every girl should have one.

+1

Sephora sells sex toys for girls. Spencer’s sells sex toys; lots of them.

Even CVS has quite a line (including “jiggly” stroker things for males.).

Some of you seem extremely sheltered.

Wow, didn't know those stores still existed. They were really neat around 30 years ago when they came out, but were only in malls, and malls have gone the way of the DoDo bird in recent years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Same happened to me years ago. It was a butt plug. We threw it out.

That would be more concerning.

Why?

It’s not an uncommon toy for teen girls in 2025, to own. And as long as it’s kept properly clean & not shared, what’s the problem?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all need to chill out. Sex toys are not a big deal.

Haven’t you heard that giving each other sex toys has become something teens do as a joke &/or for fun. It’s becoming common for girls to gift vibrators. You can buy them on Amazon for pete’s sake!

Frankly I think every girl should have one.

I’m definitely s*x-postive and agree with there being nothing wrong with teens expressing their sexuality in healthy ways; exploration in private is completely normal and healthy. Toys used in private are normal and healthy for the most part.

However, the one concern with regular vibrator use by teen girls is they become so accustomed to that sensation to achieve the O that they can become unable to achieve without it, which could limit things with a partner in the future. But sure, for mature women, yes by all means: toys are great and they make life better in every way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would send him a text and say guess what I found in your duffel bag… Let him sweat it out for about 20 minutes then say… Your dress pants!

+1

[Anonymous]

Happened to me too with my hs senior. I just shut the bag and haven't opened it since.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

This.

Maybe that will teach you to not go into other people's belongings OP. Didn't you teach your kids to never go into your purse or nightstand drawers?

Just stop it. He’s my dependent and lives in my home and has not graduate from hs yet. I asked him 4 times to look for these slacks. He claimed he did. Even went to the dry cleaners to see if they were there. I don’t want to have to buy more dress pants. I bought the duffle bag and the clothing in it. I’ve not looked in a bag or in his things for years and sure don’t do so in a snooping way. So just stop with your holier than others attitudes.

This is a way to teach two lessons. If he HAD looked, you would've never found the toy. I think it's up to your/his comfort level if you bring up the toy, but if you tell him where you found it - he's likely bright enough to surmise the rest. It's the kind of lesson that there may need to be zero discussion, but he will never ever forget. All us adults have them, right??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You all need to chill out. Sex toys are not a big deal.

Haven’t you heard that giving each other sex toys has become something teens do as a joke &/or for fun. It’s becoming common for girls to gift vibrators. You can buy them on Amazon for pete’s sake!

Frankly I think every girl should have one.

I’m definitely s*x-postive and agree with there being nothing wrong with teens expressing their sexuality in healthy ways; exploration in private is completely normal and healthy. Toys used in private are normal and healthy for the most part.

However, the one concern with regular vibrator use by teen girls is they become so accustomed to that sensation to achieve the O that they can become unable to achieve without it, which could limit things with a partner in the future. But sure, for mature women, yes by all means: toys are great and they make life better in every way.

I would think that most women who use sex toys solo would also bring it into play with a partner, no?

I believe I read somewhere that the majority of women are incapable of getting Os from a male partner anyways. The whole low libido is nbd for women is because they don't get to O or they are not attracted to or satisfied with their partners body anyways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

This.

Maybe that will teach you to not go into other people's belongings OP. Didn't you teach your kids to never go into your purse or nightstand drawers?

Just stop it. He’s my dependent and lives in my home and has not graduate from hs yet. I asked him 4 times to look for these slacks. He claimed he did. Even went to the dry cleaners to see if they were there. I don’t want to have to buy more dress pants. I bought the duffle bag and the clothing in it. I’ve not looked in a bag or in his things for years and sure don’t do so in a snooping way. So just stop with your holier than others attitudes.

She shoots …..,..:.and completely misses the point.