Found sex toy in duffle bag

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

This.

Maybe that will teach you to not go into other people's belongings OP. Didn't you teach your kids to never go into your purse or nightstand drawers?

Just stop it. He’s my dependent and lives in my home and has not graduate from hs yet. I asked him 4 times to look for these slacks. He claimed he did. Even went to the dry cleaners to see if they were there. I don’t want to have to buy more dress pants. I bought the duffle bag and the clothing in it. I’ve not looked in a bag or in his things for years and sure don’t do so in a snooping way. So just stop with your holier than others attitudes.

She shoots …..,..:.and completely misses the point.

He shoots. She found the point of impact.

[Anonymous]

op missing in action this was all a fake post!

[Anonymous]

I have not read responses but I found something in my son’s closet in similar circumstances a few years ago. I simply put it back and never mentioned it. It’s his private life, and I imagine he was just curious and exploring. I see zero harm in it. But throwing it out or shaming him could irreparably damage our relationship.

Underage? GMAFB.

[Anonymous]

^^ not a butt plug tho.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not read responses but I found something in my son’s closet in similar circumstances a few years ago. I simply put it back and never mentioned it. It’s his private life, and I imagine he was just curious and exploring. I see zero harm in it. But throwing it out or shaming him could irreparably damage our relationship.

Underage? GMAFB.

Same; I don’t see any harm in them (toys) and just not saying anything at all as the parent.

But I can see some serious damage to the relationship and maybe even lifelong harmful stigmas, if a parent were to confiscate or shame or punish. And the type of toy is completely irrelevant (including a B*** plug).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:op missing in action this was all a fake post!

Not fake. I’m here. I posted a while back that I would no longer comment here. And I’m responding to you anyway. Yawb. There was nothing fake or trolling about my post. I put the thing back in his bag. That’s it.

[Anonymous]

anus hole

ATM machine

[Anonymous]

I would either bring it up and have a funny, but honest conversation with him about it or just ignore it and put it back in the bag.

Kids are allowed to masturbate. It's fine...I think. I will admit using a toy instead of just your hand is weird to me, but this is a new generation who plays by different rules.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have not read responses but I found something in my son’s closet in similar circumstances a few years ago. I simply put it back and never mentioned it. It’s his private life, and I imagine he was just curious and exploring. I see zero harm in it. But throwing it out or shaming him could irreparably damage our relationship.

Underage? GMAFB.

Same; I don’t see any harm in them (toys) and just not saying anything at all as the parent.

But I can see some serious damage to the relationship and maybe even lifelong harmful stigmas, if a parent were to confiscate or shame or punish. And the type of toy is completely irrelevant (including a B*** plug).

This ^ (The bolded part obviously)

[Anonymous]

If you want your child to have any respect for you or trust in you as he matures .. Ignor what you discovered.

If he wanted to share or discuss- he would have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:op missing in action this was all a fake post!

Not fake. I’m here. I posted a while back that I would no longer comment here. And I’m responding to you anyway. Yawb. There was nothing fake or trolling about my post. I put the thing back in his bag. That’s it.

Good. Please don't say anything to him. That would be traumatizing for the poor kid.