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I find a dainty stud or ring looks cute.
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How so? Recognizing that money doesn’t buy class (as evidenced by the parade of new money celebs (and their products progeny) who dress inappropriately, display their wealth in rather gaudy ways, and simply don’t carry themselves with class, I’ve underscored that people raised with a certain dignity who accept mores and values established generations ago need not be affluent to be classy. Is that what you mean by parochial? Doubtful. I suppose you mean that it is wrong to judge someone with a visible tattoo or nose piercing as not classy because they could actually be classy…and my parochial worldview makes me wrong. Let’s agree to disagree. The reality is certain things leave an immediate impression. |
Agree. Don't find them gross, just don't find them appealing. |
I take back my guess that this lady is a sahm to a wealthy man. This is a single childless sad sack who lives in a studio apartment and teaches at a private school making very little money. She spends her time seething at the new money families who she must put up with a her teaching job. She is far better and classier than them, and oh, the unfairness of it all! They have money while she has none. But luckily her “classiness” keeps her warm at night. |
lol Bless your heart. Perhaps we should start a new thread on what demonstrates class versus what demonstrates a lack of class? I bet you $20 that nobody thinks tattoos or nose piercings are classy. Heck, google says such things are tacky, unprofessional, and generally disfavored. You can have your tattoo removed, pp. Even Pete Davidson realizes how ridiculous tattoos look now that he’s older. |
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Quick show of hands:
Who would be happy to see their teen daughter come home with a tattoo or nose piercing? Anyone? |
Went through this with our kid1 .. Child asked our opinion ..Both husband and I shared... We had zero issue with the one earring. Plus this child is 18. |
I’m not tattooed nor do I have a nose piercing. I just think you are ridiculous. |
Women the world over have pierced noses, right from peasants to queens. It’s okay that you don’t know much outside your little sphere. I agree with that. |
| This “class” discussion seems gross and outdated. It sounds like you have a 100 year old perception of some fake social status which most likely only includes white Christian people. But you just keep feeling superior to the world as it passes you by. |
You are correct in assuming I am passing judgment based on my perspective as a citizen of Dcumlandia. Nonetheless, I believe most western cultures have an opinion when they see a nose piercing (or tattoo, etc.). |
Hey, that’s rude, I’m not a troll. I’m just tired of looking at these things. I keep coming across people in stores with nose rings so I thought I’d ask what others thought. Everyone I’ve seen wearing them are in low-level jobs though, so maybe they’ve given up on ever getting anywhere. I’m not sure why people think this is a racial thing though. Almost everyone I’ve seen wearing them was white. |
Wrong. Class has nothing to do with being wealthy or white. And it really has nothing to do with any sort of superiority. Are you unfamiliar with the myriad threads on dcum discussing the topic (whether in terms of attire, grooming, baby names, or very specific behavior)? The reality is nose piercings and tattoos simply aren’t considered classy. Quite the opposite. As an example: if Kate Middleton pierced her nose, she would quickly be called out for such a tasteless choice…and her status, wealth, and whiteness wouldn’t shield her from criticism of a trashy fashion choice. If the OP is having some sort of midlife crisis prompting her to crowdsource whether to pierce her nose, I suggest she try something else. Or perhaps pop on a fake one (they have clip ons). |
A quick google shows plenty of royalty with piercings other than a single lobe piercing including Queen rania, Queen letizia and some lower ranking members of the British royal family. Try again weirdo. |