Satin pantsuit suit? Vintage caftan? Need drama, style

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:op again.
What is the right length for a caftan? Where should it fall on the leg to look elegant and not like a muumuu? And does a caftan require heels? (I have fat feet and teeter like a child playing dress-up on most heels. 2.5” wedge or chunky heel is my upper limit)

Event is on the other side of country, so travel is involved. I arrive late the night before, so if wrinkly fabric I would need to steam.

One splurge item I do own — found it at a consignment store in Boston and went for it — is this ankle length farm rio rainbow striped sweater: https://posh.mk/4hDuIKkUxOb could potentially wear this over something sleek and dark? Would I feel kooky/frumpy or casually stylish? (Note there is no black on the sweater — only navy).

Woke up a little more comfortable spending a bit of money though would love to keep in the three-digit range including shoes/bag/etc.

Going to click some more links. Y’all are beautiful.

Um? West coast? Day time or night? Cali? That changes everything and now flat sandals or kitten heel open toe sandals might be in play

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just want to say you're a great writer, OP! I'm loving people's suggestions in this thread, and I hope you have a great time at the event. That ex had better give you some good vibes (that you can lean into or walk away from, as you like).

I don't love that Farm Rio sweater, that said. I think it'd be great at the right time, but it feels a little this side of kooky for an event where you want to look hot in front of an ex.

Agree. That’s not going to gag your ex and you want him drooling.

Whoever posted this has the right idea: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/hutch/one_shoulder_pleated_dress?lens=classic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://us.self-portrait.com/products/pink-chiffon-feather-midi-dress

Love it! I would put a rope belt on this