Parents: What did you want and where did you end up?

Anonymous
CMU/Purdue
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yale/Yale. Yes, I was very lucky and it changed my life. No, I don’t think I’d get in today.


How did Yale change your life?

Signed,

Wanted Yale/got Georgetown
Anonymous
Anywhere outside of Virginia. Ended up at UVa.
Anonymous
Wanted Bates where my father and grandfather went to college, got Bates …and chose Bowdoin
Anonymous
Wanted Radcliffe got Radcliffe then found out that my diploma would read Harvard and chose Smith
Anonymous
For myself (1990's)...

Wanted: Georgetown. Ended up: Penn.
Anonymous
Yale/UVA
Anonymous
Middlebury/Carleton

Carleton was my 2nd choice so all was good, and definitely the best choice for me in the end.
Anonymous
Colby/Bucknell

Got into Colby but parents said it was too far away. Enjoyed Bucknell and probably wouldn’t have liked in the end how small Colby was size wise.
Anonymous
Wanted Yale, ended up at Harvard. It was fine.
Anonymous
Penn State/Penn State. Best school for me - had a blast!
Anonymous
Also wanted yale and ended up at Harvard.
Anonymous
Wanted Columbia, was rejected and went to Cornell 15 years ago. In hindsight very glad about that rejection, Cornell was a great fit. Life changing as coming from a low SES first gen background.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dartmouth or Cornell, loved both, got in both but parents wouldn't pay. Went to Delaware on a full ride.


Any regrets?


No, went on from Delaware to a top5 law school. My kids wish they had Ivy legacy status but my life has been great!


I was similar, high stats, high potential. Got into Cornell (goal school) parents refused to pay. Went full ride at my midwest nothing state school. Graduated suma cum laude, went to grad school for MS and PhD fully funded. No regrets. My kids will likely do the same. Undergrad is only a stepping stone of they are going to grad school.
Anonymous
Wanted Oberlin. Got Michigan.

A SLAC would have been better for me; I knew what I needed but didn't know enough to apply to a range of SLACs. I didn't even know the names of many schools.

Michigan was fine but it was (and I believe still is) overrated.
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