I feel bad for the families with kids on the second team, fine with being on the second team, likely with options to play for a club without an MLSNext or ECNL top team that then lose playing time to kids not on their team |
It’s the bait and switch that is the problem. They should be honest about roster size. |
The should be honest with the RL kids that they will lose playing time because the ECNL roster is too big for everyone to dress. Of course, those kids may more to clubs where the top team is RL or USYS and the clubs don't want that |
Blame the parents. They make decisions for the kids, pay for it and run the Uber service. They chase a badge or name brand club that's not a good fit for their kid. Joining the other unhappy Jones's |
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I don't know. I TOTALLY don't feel this way by U17.
My kids moved to an MLSNext Club and knew they would always have to fight and prove themselves. The roster was announced each week. My oldest had an Injury that kept him out U17 so he ended up the 25th player on an MLSNext roster U18/19. It made him work, work hard. He wanted a starting spot. He put in the time and effort and didn't whine. If a lower team didn't have enough players, he went and supported them. He didn't cry and moan. He knew going in he had to prove himself. The transformation from Sept to June was amazing. I have also been in situations with my other son where they added kids late. If the kid was truly better than any of the starters, including my own kid (which some were), I had zero qualms about my kid not getting playing time until they could show they deserved to be out there. It's how you frame it for your kid. But, by U17 and beyond, one should be fighting for their spot every practice and every week. If you want a spot guaranteed, play time guaranteed--than the top EcNL and MLSNext and college programs are not right for you and your kid. |
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U16 and I’m with you U17 parent.
I do think the original poster had a point, you ask and are told 20 and they take 25. It is the definition of bait and switch. They probably did it just to prevent some kids from switching. Is there any recourse, nope, it’s just the unnecessary painful lessons of travel soccer. But the truth is there are no guarantees for playing time. You have to earn it, and sometimes that is against one or two dual rostered players or an unhappy kid from another Club or a kid the coach knows who guest plays for a tournament. All these things happen at almost every Club. I heard about a Club last year that went down to a Showcase in Florida with more kids than they could roster. Or how about a Club not rostering their own players for a big tournament but bring in guest players. I saw that too. You’ve seen a lot by U16 and unfortunately you see kids that learn that they have to drop down a level because they just don’t get any playing time. It’s a long season for them and their parents and not fun for anyone. So take a deep breath, after U13 in any League above NCSL it’s a roller coaster. Support your kid, don’t blame other kids or parents, just learn and move on if you feel necessary. Find the right team where your kid plays and has fun. |
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Op, name them.
Our club has 32! They are all double rostered. It’s a way to sell $$$ ECNL for younger players before parents become fully aware of the scam. |
Not in DC, but yes, there are 32 girls on our ECNL roster. |
99% with you. I think the problem is with college recruiting that you’ve got such a limited window. For example, my DC was a starting OB, the club had a new coach who wanted to move from a 433 to a 352. Kid was the best mix of defending and go forward, but not as good a scorer as the pure wings, and not as big as the pure CB. In other words, a traditional OB in a 4-back. New coach comes in, kid is now fighting for minutes with wingers who don’t worry about defending, or with CBs that offer much more arial threat. This happens in the pros all the time, and usually they sell that player on to a team where the style fits. But with only 12-24 months of college recruiting, you are kind of screwed. |
What's an OB? Why couldn't he adjust? |
OB is an outside back. In some formations, the outside back is expected to basically control the touch line on his side. Be able to move the ball up quickly, but also be locked in on defense. traditional Outside Backs are expected to be able to cross, but are often pace merchants. Antonee Robinson on USMNT/Fulham is a traditional OB. he happens to be quite tall, which means if a coach wants to switch to a different formation and have 3 CBs with 2 midfielders who drop back when under pressure, he still has a chance to play. But if you aren’t a good enough defender to really command the area like a Center Back is expected to, then the coach is going to choose a better defender over you. On the other side, if you are a good OB, but not quite as good as your existing forwards, then the coach is not going to choose to move you up field. Maybe you get moved into a midfield 5, but that can have different requirements. Good players can adjust, but sometimes genetics plays a role and you aren’t quite the perfect fit in the formation the coach wants to use. |
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My kid played on a team with 25 kids, and rarely were 25 available to play - due to injury, sickness or occasional family conflict.
Generally, one or two kids who could play were left off the roster of 18 who dressed. This was MLS Next |
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That's a question more families should ask: how many players MAX are you going to take?
But they don't. Coaches carry big rosters partly so they have sufficient players when injuries come which they always do at older ages. However, you need to know what the philosophy is about sitting kids out when the players are all healthy. Attendance at practice or just sheer ability to impact a game? |
whats worse is FVU is bottom of barrel on boys side. Kept mostly Brave players and the good union kids went to better clubs. So not only may you not dress. Those dressing are getting hammered in play. |
| if you child is not playing and has put in the work at practices, you should find another club. the brand names mean nothing when it comes to recruiting for colleges and your child does not play. been through this and it is a very bad experience. club: baltimore armour. |