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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know. I TOTALLY don't feel this way by U17.

My kids moved to an MLSNext Club and knew they would always have to fight and prove themselves.  The roster was announced each week.  My oldest had an Injury that kept him out U17 so he ended up the 25th player on an MLSNext roster U18/19.  It made him work, work hard.  He wanted a starting spot. He put in the time and effort and didn't whine.  If a lower team didn't have enough players, he went and supported them.  He didn't cry and moan. He knew going in he had to prove himself.  The transformation from Sept to June was amazing.

I have also been in situations with my other son where they added kids late. If the kid was truly better than any of the starters, including my own kid (which some were), I had zero qualms about my kid not getting playing time until they could show they deserved to be out there.

It's how you frame it for your kid.  But, by U17 and beyond, one should be fighting for their spot every practice and every week.

If you want a spot guaranteed, play time guaranteed--than the top EcNL and MLSNext and college programs are not right for you and your kid.[/quote]

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