Staying at MIL's house - a vent

[Anonymous]

The flip side of this is that her son and DIL are imposing on her for a whole week, taking over her kitchen to work so that she can't watch TV and insisting on making the house too cold for her. The culprit here is DH, who should have gone to a hotel instead of putting everyone through this misery because he wanted a pricey vacation instead of a hotel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here -- one more thing I forgot -- I told her I was headed out for a walk today on my lunch break. She flipped out and said, "no no no no! You can't do that! This is a retirement community. Only 65+ can use the walking paths or I get in trouble"

jfc.

omg. Also this can't be true. I'm sure guests are allowed on the walking paths.

Well, this piece may be true. My sister lives in a community next to a retirement community (not gated). They and their neighbors get yelled at whenever they walk in the retirement community. I doubt there is an official rule but it’s a hassle.

[Anonymous]

That’s really rude to expect to work from someone’s house when it’s a one-bedroom. Your DH should have gone early and you followed when you didn’t need to take over her house for your job. Or you should have gotten a hotel. Yes, she’s being crazy/ rude about the car and walking path. But it would be hard to have guests when you don’t have space for them.

Definitely move to a hotel asap.

[Anonymous]

You have a DH problem. And your MIL is a nutty MAGA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cannot fathom being in a relationship like this. Grow some balls and get a hotel room or go home. If you can't afford the hotel, you can't afford to be there. You have a massive DH problem.

And if you need to be this cheap you have no business doing an expensive home remodel. Duh.

[Anonymous]

You can Uber to a nearby cafe and work from there, avoid being with her all day. She'll also get some privacy she is used to. Old age decline, aches and hung ups can mess people up. Be the adult and survive for few days..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot fathom being in a relationship like this. Grow some balls and get a hotel room or go home. If you can't afford the hotel, you can't afford to be there. You have a massive DH problem.

And if you need to be this cheap you have no business doing an expensive home remodel. Duh.

Expensive remodel and expensive vacation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is a troll. No grown woman worthy of the name woman would put up with this. I have a credit card, an Uber app and an ID. I would have been in a hotel within the hour of someone treating me like that. You tell me I can’t go on a WALK or access a car that you previously told me I could use? Bye. I don’t stay in places where my freedom of mobility is compromised.

Not only would no grown woman put up with everything OP described but no grown woman would act like she describes her MIL acting and no grown man would put up with all that crap either. It's just a made up post.

[Anonymous]

You work every day why can't you afford a hotel? I can't stand being hot. I would get a hotel bcof the temperature of her place.

You need to leave. Rent a car and get a hotel with a gym. Tell yournhusband he can stay there. Ill bet money he goes to the hotel also.

[Anonymous]

I think this is half your fault. I would be pissed if I had to walk on eggshells for a week. Why didn’t you just fly out later??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find a way to save money somewhere else. And get out of there and get a hotel room. Immediately. I

Tell DH you can’t work from her house. Surely if you took PTO that would be worth the equivalent of a hotel room, so you’re saving money by saving your leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a way to save money somewhere else. And get out of there and get a hotel room. Immediately. I

Tell DH you can’t work from her house. Surely if you took PTO that would be worth the equivalent of a hotel room, so you’re saving money by saving your leave.

OP is one of those wives controlled by hubby. She's not allowed to have access to their money or take part in any decision making.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like your MIL didn’t want you to stay with her. It’s her house and her car and her kitchen.
You need to understand that.

[Anonymous]

No, she doesn't.

[Anonymous]

I did ask Jeff to check if OP is a troll. As thread is still here, I guess she is not, or Jeff is away and not checking.