Not eveyoej can afford $200,000 plus a year. |
I purchased whole life insurance early in my career. Recently bought some more for this exact reason. First policy will be paid up in a few years. Second policy can stop payments at any time and get return of principal. Can also reduce the face value later if payments no longer fit the budget. It’s not a lot but there will be something for our children even if we spend down all of our assets. Will figure out later if second policy is a good way to spend our money but for now it gives me peace of mind. |
Is it legal to just spend all your money on dumb stuff, instead of saving it for your own care? What if I earn a very good salary, but just don't save for my future? Instead I spend it all on expensive trips, fine dining, clothing, and lavish parties? Year after year. I just spend spend spend. Gifts to everyone! Then I have no more money. Nothing saved. I qualify for Medicaid. Is that OK? (I know it is legal.) |
In a family where you can trust the kids to take care of you in old age, transfer everything to kids and live with one of them well before you need Medicaid. Use SS payments to pay rent to kid as continued way to transfer income. Kid pays for everything — food, housing, trips, whatever. You get benefit of Medicaid. I know a family that did this. The elderly parent didn’t live in nursing home but got a ton of benefits — aides that came to the house to help with bathing, food prep, cleaning the space where parent lived; food stamp allowance; good hospital coverage when there were in patient stays; respite care for kid who was primary caregiver; etc |
You can’t count on independent living till a week in hospice. Round the clock care -at relatively low wages- in the home will run over $100,000/year. In-home costs will also have to cover housing and food and basic bills, too. Not just care support. If you are lucky and can totally trust your kids to manage your money, go ahead and start handing it over. But there are so many bad stories in this scenario. Purchasing long term care insurance is not the bargain it once was, however, if you negotiate a lump payment up front, in a reliable company -do your research- you have theoretical security that the support should be there as needed. Some even will give a remainder to your heirs. But most of these plans will not serve you well, so be careful. I’m not rich enough to know about the range of preserving your money options. Good luck to all struggling with balancing now and life post-dementia. |
So you will get to spend your final days, weeks, years in a Medicaid facility. Not something most people would be looking forward to. I'd prefer to save and plan so I can spend my time in a high quality facility with excellent care, not some low level facility where pay is low and care is low quality (most medicaid facilities fall into that category) But you do you |