People do this more to avoid paying taxes, which benefits family. Not to sign themselves up for a Medicaid place. |
My parents said things like this and then had no plan. Do not do this to your children. I spent some time talking to my therapist about this. Why there isn't a better process for just offing ourselves or our family members. We are kinder to our pets. The human condition is such that we get to the end and we resist with every fiber of our being. It's a small few who will define some critical end point, see the end point, and then take action to not end up in the end of life quagmire. What you are saying is just a way of punting the issue. Or if that's your actual plan, start looking into it now. Find the state were it's allowed, draw up the legal documents, find a place, make a deposit, share your intentions with others and be specific. |
Exactly 🤣 But OP sounds a little psychotic so let’s not discourage her. A Medicaid bed will be her comeuppance. |
DP: You don't really get to control much how people react to your question on an open-ended anonymous forum. Maybe consult a professional if you're that touchy? |
Why would you give away all of your money to go on welfare? This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Have you been to a low income nursing home? I assure you, it's not a place you want to live if you are worried about estate planning. |
Give it all to them now. Hope they love you enough to take care of you when you need it. Nothing in guaranteed. |
PAY FOR IT if they can afford it, or their family pays for it, or (in most cases) they get very minimal care and live a horrid life until they die in their own filth. |
Yup. Facts. |
Bullet to the head. |
Why are you such an awful person? Because when you say sh-- like this, it shows you for the Effing awful, black-hearted person you are. |
Adorable. Gaslighting is what you resort to? |
Yes, in fact I have. |
So to answer your original question - consult an attorney with expertise in elder law and asset protection. I'm sure a little Googling and you'll get some names. |
The best thing you can do is to help your kids while they’re young. Pay for college, maybe help with a downpayment. Plenty of people on this board can attest that they make no assumptions about getting any inheritance, and neither should your kids. But if you gave them a leg up early on, then their lives can be largely unimpacted by whether or not they get any money when you die |
Give it to your children while you are alive. When they have young kids in day care or are buying a house - helpnwith the down payment. Do the trust when a spouse needs long-term care and support and the other spouse does not. You don't want it all taken up by one spouse and then the spouse is doing well has to live on nothing |