Mediocre Arlington at it again, but this mom is right it’s about playing mediocre soccer at the ncaa level. Congrats ECNL! |
Found on League Apps, thanks! |
All joking aside -- what if it is? What if that is what it all is about? Playing soccer -- helping get into a better school than you otherwise would have, maybe for money in D1, and go to college and live your life. What is that was the end game and no one cared if others though mediocre. Yale plays mediocre football at best. Most of that team end up as doctors, lawyers, bankers, and executives later in life. Do you think they cared that someone else thought they played mediocre football? Not for one second. |
If that is the attitude about futbol, then just go to bleeping college - in this area most people paying and playing club have the money for college - and leave futbol to the futbolistas! Our game is not some vehicle for upper middle class white kids to bridge into the 1%… |
Bruh you are in way too deep. Not everything you think needs to get typed. |
"Futbol is life!" - Dani Rojas |
Agree. At that point, why even bother? Just focus on getting into school. Another reason why the whole mixing of education and athletics is pointless. |
This is an interesting debate. As a middle-class family in the area in ECNL, we do not have the money saved for college. Be it, a college soccer scholarship for most is probably only 25% to 50%. We push academics first with the hopes for both academic and sports scholarships. While we spend a lot on Club Soccer, the benefits of the cost are worth it. Most importantly our children stay busy all of the time and are less likely to get caught up in the riff raff of drugs, crime, etc. Second is the life skill of learning how to work with a team, being a leader, following direction, staying healthy and many other reasons. If it wasn't soccer, it would be gymnastics, softball, lacrosse, basketball, or pick your poison. |
I'm glad pay to play soccer is keeping your little DC away from the riff raff of drugs and crime. ECNL saving one priviliged life at a time. |
_+1000 you get it! |
That is the attitude. Don’t get me wrong, girls playing love soccer but it is not life. It is a thing to do just like any other sport. It has particular benefits to MC , UMC, and rich families. It’s not your game. It is whoever takes its game. It can’t be anything else. On the girl’s side that is what it is. Boy’s side different. |
First the research shows that sports and higher education play well together. 47 percent of female executives played a port in college. Second you can get into a better school with sports. Thirst there may be a little bit of money there. Fourth, yes these girls are all about getting into school. They get in early to their choice school. |
I didn’t realize the Lord of Football was on this board! “Our game”?? Who made you the arbiter of approved motivation? You think girls should only play college soccer if they need the money? Young women who choose to give up thousands of little moments throughout middle school and high school just for the chance of playing a sport in college? To learn early what it takes to push through disappointment, to embrace success? To have what amounts to a corporate job interview while still a sophomore or junior in HS? I’m pretty confident that the kids you are excluding from being “futbolistas” both know the game better than you, and have sacrificed far more than you have to be able to make those decisions. |
Such a sacrifice, play a game and get a world class education at Georgetown or at VA Tech, whoa is you, both of you are idiots. |
These are like talking points from 1992…and research on female executives is actually on female athletes from the 80s and 90s. Not as relevant to the classes of the 20s. Half of Harvard’s women’s soccer team is international. The only local went to Sidwell. It’s not helping some girl from Annandale HS get to the Ivy League like in the days of yore. Look at college commits - the locals going Ivy are almost all Sidwell, Maret, Potomac School. It’s slightly helping girls who go to $40K/yr private high schools go to a $65K/yr private college. |